
Dead to Me (2019) Parents Guide: Is the series OK for kids?
Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language
A hotheaded widow searching for the hit-and-run driver who mowed down her husband befriends an eccentric optimist who isn't quite what she seems.
TV-MA • 2019 • 3 seasons
This dark comedy series follows a grieving widow who unknowingly befriends the woman who killed her husband, earning its mature rating primarily for pervasive, severe language and heavy adult themes. Parents should be aware of constant and very strong profanity, including frequent use of 'f--k' by both adults and children. Casual and heavy alcohol use is a constant coping mechanism for the main characters, and other substance use like… Sign up for the full guide
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Is Dead to Me appropriate for kids?
This dark comedy series follows a grieving widow who unknowingly befriends the woman who killed her husband, earning its mature rating primarily for pervasive, severe language and heavy adult themes. Parents should be aware of constant and very strong profanity, including… Read more — free account
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Sex and nudity in Dead to Me
Sexual content is mild but implied. Sexual humor and references are present. There are multiple instances of two women kissing, and sex is implied off-screen or under sheets. Discussions about relationships, infidelity, and sexual encounters occur, but there is no explicit nudity or graphic depiction of sex acts. Jen is involved in a casual sexual relationship.
Violence and gore in Dead to Me
Violence is moderate, with a focus on a hit-and-run car accident that serves as a central plot device. Flashbacks to the accident show squealing brakes, a loud impact, and implied injury, sometimes with blood on a windshield. Other violent acts include a character being hit by a car, a character being struck by a blunt object, and a character being shot to death. While not overtly gory, the aftermath of violence, particularly the hit-and-run, is a persistent and emotionally impactful theme.
Language in Dead to Me
Profanity is severe and frequent throughout the season. Words like "fuck," "shit," "asshole," "bitch," and "twat-waffle" are used regularly by adult characters, including Jen, Judy, and others. Children in the series also use strong language in some scenes, primarily Jen's sons. The language is conversational and reflects heightened emotional states.
Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in Dead to Me
Frequent alcohol consumption is depicted, particularly Jen drinking wine in almost every episode as a coping mechanism. Characters are often seen consuming cocktails and engaging in social drinking. In one episode, Judy smokes marijuana. There is also a scene where characters consume hallucinogenic mushrooms and are shown experiencing their effects, including altered perception and dizziness.
Mature themes in Dead to Me
Season 3 heavily explores themes of grief, death, and mortality, particularly as Judy confronts a life-threatening illness. Guilt and the moral complexities of covering up crimes are central to Jen and Ben's storylines. Familial conflict, particularly between Jen and her son, is present. Mental health struggles, specifically depression and addiction, are depicted as major challenges for Ben. The series also delves into the emotional toll of secrets and the bonds of female friendship amidst immense hardship.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is Dead to Me appropriate for kids?
Bontent's parent guide suggests Dead to Me is best for ages 17+. It's rated TV-MA. This dark comedy series follows a grieving widow who unknowingly befriends the woman who killed her husband, earning its mature rating primarily for pervasive, severe language and heavy adult themes. Parents should be…
What age rating does Dead to Me have?
Dead to Me is rated TV-MA. Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 17+.
What is Dead to Me about?
This dark comedy series follows a grieving widow who unknowingly befriends the woman who killed her husband, earning its mature rating primarily for pervasive, severe language and heavy adult themes. Parents should be aware of constant and very strong profanity, including frequent use of 'f--k' by both adults and…
How many seasons does Dead to Me have?
Dead to Me has 3 seasons covered in this parent guide. Sign up to see a season-by-season breakdown.
Is there sex or nudity in Dead to Me?
Our reviewers didn't note meaningful sexual content across Dead to Me.
How violent is Dead to Me?
Violence isn't a standout concern across Dead to Me per our reviewers.
Is the language in Dead to Me appropriate for kids?
Strong language isn't flagged across Dead to Me.
Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking shown in Dead to Me?
Drug, alcohol, and smoking depictions are minimal across Dead to Me.
What mature themes appear in Dead to Me?
Heavy thematic material isn't a defining feature of Dead to Me.
Where can I read the full Dead to Me parent guide?
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