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Three to Tango (1999) Parents Guide: Is the movie OK for kids?

Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language

Oscar and Peter land a career-making opportunity when a Chicago tycoon chooses them to compete for the design of a cultural center. The tycoon mistakenly believes that Oscar is gay and has him spy on his mistress Amy. Oscar goes along with it and ends up falling in love with Amy.

Rated PG-13 • 1999 • 1h 38m

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Three to Tango earns its PG-13 rating primarily for sex-related situations and some language. The plot follows architect Oscar Novak, who is mistakenly believed to be gay and must maintain the charade, leading to frequent comedic misunderstandings about sexuality, romantic advances from other men, and verbal innuendo. The film contains one use of the 'f-word', moderate social drinking, and mature themes of deception and infidelity… Sign up for the full guide

Cast

Matthew Perry
Matthew Perry
Neve Campbell
Neve Campbell
Dylan McDermott
Dylan McDermott
Oliver Platt
Oliver Platt
Cylk Cozart
Cylk Cozart
John C. McGinley
John C. McGinley
Bob Balaban
Bob Balaban
Deborah Rush
Deborah Rush
Kelly Rowan
Kelly Rowan
Rick Gomez
Rick Gomez
Patrick Van Horn
Patrick Van Horn
David Ramsey
David Ramsey
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Is Three to Tango appropriate for kids?

Three to Tango earns its PG-13 rating primarily for sex-related situations and some language. The plot follows architect Oscar Novak, who is mistakenly believed to be gay and must maintain the charade, leading to frequent comedic misunderstandings about sexuality, romantic… Read more — free account

Content severity in Three to Tango

Sex Strong 6/10
Violence Moderate 4/10
Language Strong 7/10
Substances Moderate 4/10
Themes Strong 6/10

What happens in Three to Tango, moment by moment

  1. 0:10 🔥 Mature Themes 4/10
  2. 0:15 ♥ Sex & Nudity 4/10
  3. 0:26 🍷 Substances 3/10
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Sex and nudity in Three to Tango

Moderate. The central plot is driven by sexual situations and dialogue. Oscar pretends to be gay, leading to several scenes where other men make passes at him. There is verbal innuendo, including a reference to a character being 'well-hung.' In one scene, Oscar walks in on Amy in a bathtub (no nudity aside from bare legs) where she describes a past lesbian experience. A man comically gets an erection while on top of Oscar and professes his love. Characters kiss.

Violence and gore in Three to Tango

Light and comedic. Violence is minimal and played for laughs. In one scene near the end of the film, a female character punches two male characters in the face out of anger and frustration. The acts have no lasting consequence and are presented in a slapstick manner.

Language in Three to Tango

Moderate. The film contains one use of the 'f-word,' which accounts for the rating's language warning. Other milder profanity is used occasionally, including 'hell,' 'damn,' 'ass,' and 'bitch.'

Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in Three to Tango

Moderate. Characters are frequently shown drinking alcohol in social settings like bars, restaurants, and parties. Wine, beer, and cocktails are consumed throughout the film, but no one is shown to be excessively drunk. There is no drug use.

Mature themes in Three to Tango

Moderate. The plot is centered on deception, as Oscar maintains a significant lie about his sexual identity to secure a job and get close to a woman. The film also clearly depicts infidelity, as a central character is the long-term mistress of a married man. Themes of sexual identity, social prejudice, and the importance of honesty are explored within a comedic context.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is Three to Tango appropriate for kids?

Bontent's parent guide suggests Three to Tango is best for ages 13+. It's rated PG-13. Three to Tango earns its PG-13 rating primarily for sex-related situations and some language. The plot follows architect Oscar Novak, who is mistakenly believed to be gay and must maintain the charade, leading to…

What age rating does Three to Tango have?

Three to Tango is officially rated PG-13. Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 13+.

What is Three to Tango about?

Three to Tango earns its PG-13 rating primarily for sex-related situations and some language. The plot follows architect Oscar Novak, who is mistakenly believed to be gay and must maintain the charade, leading to frequent comedic misunderstandings about sexuality, romantic advances from other men, and verbal innuendo…

Is there sex or nudity in Three to Tango?

Moderate. The central plot is driven by sexual situations and dialogue. Oscar pretends to be gay, leading to several scenes where other men make passes at him. There is verbal innuendo, including a reference to a character being 'well-hung.' In one scene…

How violent is Three to Tango?

Light and comedic. Violence is minimal and played for laughs. In one scene near the end of the film, a female character punches two male characters in the face out of anger and frustration. The acts have no lasting consequence and are presented in a slapstick…

Is the language in Three to Tango appropriate for kids?

Moderate. The film contains one use of the 'f-word,' which accounts for the rating's language warning. Other milder profanity is used occasionally, including 'hell,' 'damn,' 'ass,' and 'bitch.'

Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking shown in Three to Tango?

Moderate. Characters are frequently shown drinking alcohol in social settings like bars, restaurants, and parties. Wine, beer, and cocktails are consumed throughout the film, but no one is shown to be excessively drunk. There is no drug use.

What mature themes appear in Three to Tango?

Moderate. The plot is centered on deception, as Oscar maintains a significant lie about his sexual identity to secure a job and get close to a woman. The film also clearly depicts infidelity, as a central character is the long-term mistress of a married man…

How long is Three to Tango?

Three to Tango runs 98 minutes, directed by Damon Santostefano, released in 1999.

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