
To the Wonder (2013) Parents Guide: Is the movie OK for kids?
Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language
Neil is torn between two loves: Marina, the European woman who comes to the United States to be with him, and Jane, the old flame from his hometown he reconnects with. Neil’s doubts about his life and loves are reflected in the crisis of faith experienced by Father Quintana, who only sees pain and the loss of hope in the world.
Rated R • 2013 • 1h 52m
To the Wonder is a meditative, non-linear drama exploring the complexities of love, faith, and human connection as Neil, a man in Oklahoma, struggles with his relationships with two different women. The film earned an R rating primarily due to several scenes of sexual intimacy, including breast nudity, and mature themes surrounding marital infidelity and existential crisis. Parents should be aware that the narrative is highly abstract… Sign up for the full guide
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Is To the Wonder appropriate for kids?
To the Wonder is a meditative, non-linear drama exploring the complexities of love, faith, and human connection as Neil, a man in Oklahoma, struggles with his relationships with two different women. The film earned an R rating primarily due to several scenes of sexual intimacy… Read more — free account
Content severity in To the Wonder
What happens in To the Wonder, moment by moment
- 0:15 ♥ Sex & Nudity 5/10
- 0:28 ♥ Sex & Nudity 4/10
- 0:42 ⚔ Violence & Gore 3/10
Sex and nudity in To the Wonder
The film contains moderate sexual content, including brief glimpses of breast nudity and scenes of romantic intimacy in bed. Characters engage in passionate, sometimes suggestive, behavior, such as a woman unzipping her jacket in a store. There are also moments showing couples in suggestive states of undress or caressing while clothed.
Violence and gore in To the Wonder
Violence is very limited and mild, centered on brief moments of interpersonal conflict between the central characters. One instance involves a man grabbing a woman by the arm and pushing her away after a physical altercation involving a car mirror.
Language in To the Wonder
There is no profanity in the film.
Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in To the Wonder
Substance use is minimal and incidental, with characters shown occasionally consuming alcohol in social settings.
Mature themes in To the Wonder
The narrative focuses on heavy mature themes, including the breakdown of marriages, the agony of infidelity, and the deep, often painful search for spiritual meaning in the face of isolation. The film portrays the emotional suffering of characters dealing with visa issues, gambling debts, and a significant crisis of faith.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is To the Wonder appropriate for kids?
Bontent's parent guide suggests To the Wonder is best for ages 16+. It's rated R. To the Wonder is a meditative, non-linear drama exploring the complexities of love, faith, and human connection as Neil, a man in Oklahoma, struggles with his relationships with two different women. The film earned an R…
What age rating does To the Wonder have?
To the Wonder is officially rated R. Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 16+.
What is To the Wonder about?
To the Wonder is a meditative, non-linear drama exploring the complexities of love, faith, and human connection as Neil, a man in Oklahoma, struggles with his relationships with two different women. The film earned an R rating primarily due to several scenes of sexual intimacy, including breast nudity, and mature…
Is there sex or nudity in To the Wonder?
The film contains moderate sexual content, including brief glimpses of breast nudity and scenes of romantic intimacy in bed. Characters engage in passionate, sometimes suggestive, behavior, such as a woman unzipping her jacket in a store. There are also…
How violent is To the Wonder?
Violence is very limited and mild, centered on brief moments of interpersonal conflict between the central characters. One instance involves a man grabbing a woman by the arm and pushing her away after a physical altercation involving a car mirror.
Is the language in To the Wonder appropriate for kids?
There is no profanity in the film.
Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking shown in To the Wonder?
Substance use is minimal and incidental, with characters shown occasionally consuming alcohol in social settings.
What mature themes appear in To the Wonder?
The narrative focuses on heavy mature themes, including the breakdown of marriages, the agony of infidelity, and the deep, often painful search for spiritual meaning in the face of isolation. The film portrays the emotional suffering of characters dealing…
How long is To the Wonder?
To the Wonder runs 112 minutes, directed by Terrence Malick, released in 2013.
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