
Messenger (2006) Parents Guide: Is the book OK for kids?
Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language
Second installment to Youth classic, "The Giver." Required in numerous 8th/9th grade English classrooms. Introducing the idea of a utopian society to youth for the 1st time. The well known Trilogy also includes a third book, Gathering Blue. Only recently for the 20th Anniversary of "The Giver" author, Lois Lowry has written a 4th book called, "The Son" now available as of Oct 2012. Which makes the series a fourquet and answers the many hanging questions left by the "The Giver" Reading the two, middle books is not entirely necessary… Sign up for the full guide
Middle Grade • 2006 • 175 pages • Lexile 720L (roughly grades 2–3 reading difficulty)
Messenger is a philosophical and somber fantasy novel that concludes segments of the Giver Quartet, earning its recommended age due to its dark themes of societal decay and a sacrificial ending. Parents should be aware of a pervasive sense of dread within a forest that actively kills intruders, as well as a 'Trade Mart' that serves as an allegory for selling one's soul. The book is intended for middle-grade readers but contains some… Sign up for the full guide
Is Messenger appropriate for kids?
Messenger is a philosophical and somber fantasy novel that concludes segments of the Giver Quartet, earning its recommended age due to its dark themes of societal decay and a sacrificial ending. Parents should be aware of a pervasive sense of dread within a forest that actively… Read more — free account
Content severity in Messenger
What happens in Messenger, moment by moment
- p. 8 🔥 Mature Themes 2/10
- p. 20 ⚔ Violence & Gore 3/10
- p. 32 💬 Language 1/10
Sex and nudity in Messenger
This category is essentially absent throughout the novel. There are brief mentions of characters like Mentor and Stocky becoming 'attractive' or changing their physical appearance through Trade Mart to appeal to others, but no sexual content, romance, or kissing is depicted. The focus remains on physical vanity rather than sexual attraction. The book is suitable for readers looking for a story free of romantic subplots. The interactions between Matty and Kira are portrayed as deep friendship and shared history…
Read more — free accountViolence and gore in Messenger
Moderate fantasy violence that becomes increasingly visceral as the Forest grows hostile. The Forest is a sentient, hostile entity that 'warns' people by whipping them with branches, entangling limbs, and eventually killing those who do not heed its signals. Descriptions of rotting odors, Sharp-trees that pierce skin, and the physical toll of Matty’s healing gift are vivid and may be unsettling to some. In the final chapters, characters suffer from bleeding feet, strangulation by vines, and caustic air that burns…
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Very mild and infrequent, adhering to the high-standard, precise vocabulary established in the previous Giver Quartet books. The community uses specific, formal language to maintain order and clarity, and there is no usage of traditional profanity or derogatory slurs. Words like 'whelp' or 'beast' are used in descriptive contexts, but the tone remains elevated and literate throughout. Parents will find no linguistic concerns beyond the complex vocabulary typical of Lois Lowry's writing style. The lack of swearing…
Read more — free accountDrugs, alcohol, and smoking in Messenger
This category is entirely absent from the story. The community of Village is focused on self-sustenance, gardening, and trade, with no mentions of drugs, alcohol, or tobacco. Characters are seen sharing simple meals and water during their travels through the woods. The 'intoxication' felt by characters is purely metaphorical, relating to the greed and obsession sparked by the Trade Mart. There are no scenes involving medicinal misuse or mind-altering substances, maintaining the book's status as a clean read in…
Read more — free accountMature themes in Messenger
Heavy themes of sacrifice, greed, and the loss of empathy permeate the narrative as the utopian Village begins to rot from within. The 'Trade Mart' serves as a dark metaphor for trading inner virtue, such as kindness or identity, for material goods like a Gaming Machine or physical perfection. Readers witness a once-welcoming society turn toward xenophobia and selfishness, culminating in the vote to close their borders to refugees. The ending centers on a profound act of self-sacrifice that may be emotionally…
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Is Messenger appropriate for kids?
Bontent's parent guide suggests Messenger is best for ages 10+. Messenger is a philosophical and somber fantasy novel that concludes segments of the Giver Quartet, earning its recommended age due to its dark themes of societal decay and a sacrificial ending. Parents should be aware…
What age rating does Messenger have?
Books don't carry official age ratings. Messenger is published for a Middle Grade audience, and Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 10+.
What reading level is Messenger?
Messenger is 175 pages and its reading level is Lexile 720L (roughly grades 2–3 reading difficulty). Bontent recommends it for ages 10+.
What is Messenger about?
Messenger is a philosophical and somber fantasy novel that concludes segments of the Giver Quartet, earning its recommended age due to its dark themes of societal decay and a sacrificial ending. Parents should be aware of a pervasive sense of dread within a forest that actively kills intruders, as well as a 'Trade…
Is there sex or nudity in Messenger?
This category is essentially absent throughout the novel. There are brief mentions of characters like Mentor and Stocky becoming 'attractive' or changing their physical appearance through Trade Mart to appeal to others, but no sexual content, romance, or…
How violent is Messenger?
Moderate fantasy violence that becomes increasingly visceral as the Forest grows hostile. The Forest is a sentient, hostile entity that 'warns' people by whipping them with branches, entangling limbs, and eventually killing those who do not heed its signals…
Is the language in Messenger appropriate for kids?
Very mild and infrequent, adhering to the high-standard, precise vocabulary established in the previous Giver Quartet books. The community uses specific, formal language to maintain order and clarity, and there is no usage of traditional profanity or…
Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking depicted in Messenger?
This category is entirely absent from the story. The community of Village is focused on self-sustenance, gardening, and trade, with no mentions of drugs, alcohol, or tobacco. Characters are seen sharing simple meals and water during their travels through the…
What mature themes appear in Messenger?
Heavy themes of sacrifice, greed, and the loss of empathy permeate the narrative as the utopian Village begins to rot from within. The 'Trade Mart' serves as a dark metaphor for trading inner virtue, such as kindness or identity, for material goods like a…
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