He's Just Not That Into You (2009) Parents Guide: Is the movie OK for kids?
Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language
Have you ever wondered why they said they would call but didn't, or why they don't want to sleep with you anymore, or why your relationship isn't going to the next level? Maybe they're just not that into you. Gigi wants a man who says he'll call her - and actually does - while Alex advises her to stop waiting by the phone. Beth wants a proposal after years of a committed relationship with her boyfriend, Neil, who is just fine with the way things are. Janine's not sure if she can trust her husband, Ben, who can't quite trust himself… Sign up for the full guide
Rated PG-13 • 2009 • 2h 9m
He's Just Not That Into You is a romantic comedy that earns its PG-13 rating primarily through its mature focus on adult relationships, sexual content, and some strong language. The film explores the dating lives of several interconnected characters in Baltimore, with a central plotline involving an extramarital affair between Ben and Anna. Parents should be aware of several scenes depicting sexual situations without nudity, including… Sign up for the full guide
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Is He's Just Not That Into You appropriate for kids?
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Content severity in He's Just Not That Into You
What happens in He's Just Not That Into You, moment by moment
- 0:08 🍷 Substances 3/10
- 0:16 🔥 Mature Themes 4/10
- 0:25 ♥ Sex & Nudity 5/10
Sex and nudity in He's Just Not That Into You
Contains moderate sexual content and situations. A central storyline involves an extramarital affair, with several scenes of passionate kissing between a married man and another woman. One scene shows them in his office where she begins to remove her clothing before they are interrupted. Another scene implies they've had sex in a pool. A woman is seen briefly in a bra and slip. There is no explicit nudity, but there are frequent discussions and depictions of sexual relationships and desire.
Violence and gore in He's Just Not That Into You
Violence is nearly absent. There is one brief outburst where a character, upon learning of her husband's infidelity, angrily smashes a large mirror and throws objects around her apartment. This is driven by emotional distress rather than malice.
Language in He's Just Not That Into You
Language is a significant factor in the rating, with some strong instances. The dialogue includes at least two uses of the f-word, multiple uses of "s--t," and other terms like "ass," "bitch," and "douchebag." There are also numerous sexual references and anatomical terms used in discussions about dating and relationships.
Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in He's Just Not That Into You
Social drinking is frequent throughout the film. Characters are often seen drinking beer, wine, and cocktails in bars, at parties, and at home. One character works in a bar, so many scenes are set there. In one scene, a character smokes a cigarette and offers one to another.
Mature themes in He's Just Not That Into You
The film's primary focus is on mature and often difficult romantic themes. It deals extensively with infidelity, dishonesty, commitment-phobia, and the emotional pain of rejection and breakups. The emotional fallout from an affair is a central plot point, shown with significant distress. A minor subplot involves a character's elderly father having a non-fatal heart attack, which is portrayed with some intensity.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is He's Just Not That Into You appropriate for kids?
Bontent's parent guide suggests He's Just Not That Into You is best for ages 13+. It's rated PG-13. He's Just Not That Into You is a romantic comedy that earns its PG-13 rating primarily through its mature focus on adult relationships, sexual content, and some strong language. The film explores the dating lives of…
What age rating does He's Just Not That Into You have?
He's Just Not That Into You is officially rated PG-13. Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 13+.
What is He's Just Not That Into You about?
He's Just Not That Into You is a romantic comedy that earns its PG-13 rating primarily through its mature focus on adult relationships, sexual content, and some strong language. The film explores the dating lives of several interconnected characters in Baltimore, with a central plotline involving an extramarital…
Is there sex or nudity in He's Just Not That Into You?
Contains moderate sexual content and situations. A central storyline involves an extramarital affair, with several scenes of passionate kissing between a married man and another woman. One scene shows them in his office where she begins to remove her clothing…
How violent is He's Just Not That Into You?
Violence is nearly absent. There is one brief outburst where a character, upon learning of her husband's infidelity, angrily smashes a large mirror and throws objects around her apartment. This is driven by emotional distress rather than malice.
Is the language in He's Just Not That Into You appropriate for kids?
Language is a significant factor in the rating, with some strong instances. The dialogue includes at least two uses of the f-word, multiple uses of "s--t," and other terms like "ass," "bitch," and "douchebag." There are also numerous sexual references and…
Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking shown in He's Just Not That Into You?
Social drinking is frequent throughout the film. Characters are often seen drinking beer, wine, and cocktails in bars, at parties, and at home. One character works in a bar, so many scenes are set there. In one scene, a character smokes a cigarette and offers…
What mature themes appear in He's Just Not That Into You?
The film's primary focus is on mature and often difficult romantic themes. It deals extensively with infidelity, dishonesty, commitment-phobia, and the emotional pain of rejection and breakups. The emotional fallout from an affair is a central plot point…
How long is He's Just Not That Into You?
He's Just Not That Into You runs 129 minutes, directed by Ken Kwapis, released in 2009.
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