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Friends with Kids (2012) Parents Guide: Is the movie OK for kids?

Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language

In the wake of their friends' marriages and eventual offspring, longtime pals Julie and Jason decide to have a child together without becoming a couple. By becoming "time-share" parents, they reason, they can experience the joys of parenthood without significantly curbing their personal freedom. However, when Julie and Jason both become involved with others, they discover that they secretly harbor romantic feelings for each other.

Rated R • 2012 • 1h 40m

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Friends with Kids is an R-rated romantic dramedy about Julie and Jason — two longtime pals in Manhattan who decide to have a child together without becoming a couple. The film earned its R largely for frank sexual talk and frequent strong language (the IMDb Parents Guide cites explicit sexual terms and a brief porn clip). Parents should expect several scenes of implied sex (kissing, moaning, a bedroom sequence), open discussion of… Sign up for the full guide

Cast

Adam Scott
Adam Scott
Jennifer Westfeldt
Jennifer Westfeldt
Jon Hamm
Jon Hamm
Maya Rudolph
Maya Rudolph
Chris O'Dowd
Chris O'Dowd
Kristen Wiig
Kristen Wiig
Megan Fox
Megan Fox
Lee Bryant
Lee Bryant
Kelly Bishop
Kelly Bishop
Cotter Smith
Cotter Smith
Nina Lafarga
Nina Lafarga
Vince Nappo
Vince Nappo
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Is Friends with Kids appropriate for kids?

Friends with Kids is an R-rated romantic dramedy about Julie and Jason — two longtime pals in Manhattan who decide to have a child together without becoming a couple. The film earned its R largely for frank sexual talk and frequent strong language (the IMDb Parents Guide cites… Read more — free account

Content severity in Friends with Kids

Sex Strong 5/10
Violence Moderate 3/10
Language Strong 7/10
Substances Moderate 3/10
Themes Strong 7/10

What happens in Friends with Kids, moment by moment

  1. 0:05 🔥 Mature Themes 5/10
  2. 0:10 💬 Language 7/10
  3. 0:15 ♥ Sex & Nudity 5/10
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Sex and nudity in Friends with Kids

Moderate and frank sexual content is a primary reason for the R rating. The IMDb Parents Guide notes a scene where main characters watch porn (brief glimpse of women in thongs and exposed breasts), explicit sexual banter using terms like "blow job" and references to masturbation, and implied sex between characters (kissing, moaning, and a bedroom scene that becomes tender). There is no prolonged explicit nudity on screen, but scenes include loud moaning and lingerie-clad women in background images. Parents should…

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Violence and gore in Friends with Kids

None physical — no fights, blood, or on-screen injuries. IMDb's Parents Guide lists "none" for Violence; the film does, however, include several loud, humiliating public arguments and verbal confrontations that can feel aggressive (shouting and public embarrassment). Those moments are emotional and socially violent (humiliation) rather than bodily harm. Expect raised voices and scenes where one character shames another in front of others.

Language in Friends with Kids

Frequent strong profanity throughout, described in the IMDb Parents Guide as "lots of language." Expect repeated uses of words like "f--k," "s--t," and insults such as "a--hole" and "douchebag" in conversational and heated moments. The swearing is conversational among adults and spikes in arguments and comedic exchanges. Parents should note that explicit sexual terms also appear in dialogue alongside the profanity.

Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in Friends with Kids

Mild and social alcohol use appears throughout — characters drink at bars, restaurants and parties (one character is suggested to favor wine and sometimes drinks to excess). IMDb notes plenty of drinking, occasionally to excess, but there is no on-screen drug use or drug paraphernalia. Alcohol is used as a social lubricant and as a trigger in a few heated scenes.

Mature themes in Friends with Kids

Strong adult themes about co-parenting, commitment, infidelity, separation and divorce run through the film. Plotlines include friends choosing to have a child without romantic commitment, subsequent heartbreak when partners leave or divorce (Ben and Missy), and the emotional fallout when Julie and Jason confront their true feelings. These themes can be emotionally intense — scenes of rejection, humiliation, and breakup are central to the story and may resonate strongly with teens and adults. Parenting challenges…

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is Friends with Kids appropriate for kids?

Bontent's parent guide suggests Friends with Kids is best for ages 13+. It's rated R. Friends with Kids is an R-rated romantic dramedy about Julie and Jason — two longtime pals in Manhattan who decide to have a child together without becoming a couple. The film earned its R largely for frank sexual talk…

What age rating does Friends with Kids have?

Friends with Kids is officially rated R. Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 13+.

What is Friends with Kids about?

Friends with Kids is an R-rated romantic dramedy about Julie and Jason — two longtime pals in Manhattan who decide to have a child together without becoming a couple. The film earned its R largely for frank sexual talk and frequent strong language (the IMDb Parents Guide cites explicit sexual terms and a brief porn…

Is there sex or nudity in Friends with Kids?

Moderate and frank sexual content is a primary reason for the R rating. The IMDb Parents Guide notes a scene where main characters watch porn (brief glimpse of women in thongs and exposed breasts), explicit sexual banter using terms like "blow job" and…

How violent is Friends with Kids?

None physical — no fights, blood, or on-screen injuries. IMDb's Parents Guide lists "none" for Violence; the film does, however, include several loud, humiliating public arguments and verbal confrontations that can feel aggressive (shouting and public…

Is the language in Friends with Kids appropriate for kids?

Frequent strong profanity throughout, described in the IMDb Parents Guide as "lots of language." Expect repeated uses of words like "f--k," "s--t," and insults such as "a--hole" and "douchebag" in conversational and heated moments. The swearing is…

Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking shown in Friends with Kids?

Mild and social alcohol use appears throughout — characters drink at bars, restaurants and parties (one character is suggested to favor wine and sometimes drinks to excess). IMDb notes plenty of drinking, occasionally to excess, but there is no on-screen drug…

What mature themes appear in Friends with Kids?

Strong adult themes about co-parenting, commitment, infidelity, separation and divorce run through the film. Plotlines include friends choosing to have a child without romantic commitment, subsequent heartbreak when partners leave or divorce (Ben and Missy)…

How long is Friends with Kids?

Friends with Kids runs 100 minutes, directed by Jennifer Westfeldt, released in 2012.

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