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To Best the Boys (2019) Parents Guide: Is the book OK for kids?

Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language

The task is simple: Don a disguise. Survive the labyrinth . . . Best the boys. Every year for the past fifty-four years, the residents of Pinsbury Port have received a mysterious letter inviting all eligible-aged boys to compete for an esteemed scholarship to the all-male Stemwick University. The poorer residents look to see if their names are on the list. The wealthier look to see how likely their sons are to survive. And Rhen Tellur opens it to see if she can derive which substances the ink and parchment are created from… Sign up for the full guide

YA • 2019 • 336 pages • Lexile 740L (roughly grades 4–5 reading difficulty)

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To Best the Boys is a Young Adult fantasy set in a patriarchal society where a girl disguises herself as a boy to enter a deadly labyrinth competition. It earns its 14+ recommendation due to scenes of moderate peril, physical injuries within the maze, and descriptions of a lethal plague. Parents should note the feminist themes involving gender-based oppression and a sweet, slow-burn romance, making it ideal for fans of competitive… Sign up for the full guide

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Is To Best the Boys appropriate for kids?

To Best the Boys is a Young Adult fantasy set in a patriarchal society where a girl disguises herself as a boy to enter a deadly labyrinth competition. It earns its 14+ recommendation due to scenes of moderate peril, physical injuries within the maze, and descriptions of a… Read more — free account

Content severity in To Best the Boys

Sex Moderate 3/10
Violence Strong 6/10
Language Mild 2/10
Substances Mild 2/10
Themes Moderate 4/10

What happens in To Best the Boys, moment by moment

  1. p. 12 🔥 Mature Themes 3/10
  2. p. 28 🔥 Mature Themes 2/10
  3. p. 45 ⚔ Violence & Gore 5/10
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Sex and nudity in To Best the Boys

Romance is a minor subplot involving a slow-burn attraction between Rhen and Lunn, a male contestant. There is no explicit content, only brief instances of handheld contact, longing looks, and an eventual chaste kiss near the end of the narrative. Rhen's disguise as a boy creates tension in her interactions, but these moments remain focused on emotional connection rather than physical desire. The romantic elements are secondary to the survival plot and Rhen's academic ambitions. The text maintains a clean tone…

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Violence and gore in To Best the Boys

The labyrinth contains lethal traps and magical threats that result in injuries and at least one secondary character death. Descriptions of the plague include characters coughing blood and dying, which provides a high-stakes emotional weight to the opening chapters. Participants face physical peril from shifting walls, mechanical monsters, and natural hazards like deep water and falls. While the danger is constant, the descriptions focus more on the suspense and Rhen's problem-solving than on graphic gore. There…

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Language in To Best the Boys

Language is very mild for the YA genre, reflecting the somewhat formal, historical fantasy setting. Occasional Victorian-style insults or mild expletives like 'hell' or 'damn' appear, usually uttered by boys during moments of extreme stress or injury. There is no graphic profanity, scatological humor, or sexual slurs present in the text. Characters occasionally express frustration through sharp rebukes rather than vulgarity. The overall vocabulary is sophisticated and appropriate for readers transitioning from…

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Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in To Best the Boys

The protagonist and her father are scientists and apothecaries, so medicinal tinctures and chemical substances are frequently discussed and used for healing. Rhen uses her knowledge of chemistry to create remedies and navigate obstacles, treating the materials with professional respect. There is no recreational drug use or significant alcohol consumption by the main characters. Some background scenes in the village or during celebrations might imply the presence of ale, but it is never a plot focus. The 'potions'…

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Mature themes in To Best the Boys

Major themes include gender inequality, the right to education, and the ethics of a 'survival of the fittest' competition. Rhen deals with the grief of losing her mother to the Vane illness and the pressure of defying her society's rigid social structures by infiltrating the all-male Stemwick trial. The narrative explores the corruption of the elite and the lengths one must go to for social change. Loyalty and friendship are tested as Rhen and Seleni navigate the dangers of the labyrinth together. It is a story…

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is To Best the Boys appropriate for kids?

Bontent's parent guide suggests To Best the Boys is best for ages 14+. To Best the Boys is a Young Adult fantasy set in a patriarchal society where a girl disguises herself as a boy to enter a deadly labyrinth competition. It earns its 14+ recommendation due to scenes of moderate peril…

What age rating does To Best the Boys have?

Books don't carry official age ratings. To Best the Boys is published for a YA audience, and Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 14+.

What reading level is To Best the Boys?

To Best the Boys is 336 pages and its reading level is Lexile 740L (roughly grades 4–5 reading difficulty). Bontent recommends it for ages 14+.

What is To Best the Boys about?

To Best the Boys is a Young Adult fantasy set in a patriarchal society where a girl disguises herself as a boy to enter a deadly labyrinth competition. It earns its 14+ recommendation due to scenes of moderate peril, physical injuries within the maze, and descriptions of a lethal plague. Parents should note the…

Is there sex or nudity in To Best the Boys?

Romance is a minor subplot involving a slow-burn attraction between Rhen and Lunn, a male contestant. There is no explicit content, only brief instances of handheld contact, longing looks, and an eventual chaste kiss near the end of the narrative. Rhen's…

How violent is To Best the Boys?

The labyrinth contains lethal traps and magical threats that result in injuries and at least one secondary character death. Descriptions of the plague include characters coughing blood and dying, which provides a high-stakes emotional weight to the opening…

Is the language in To Best the Boys appropriate for kids?

Language is very mild for the YA genre, reflecting the somewhat formal, historical fantasy setting. Occasional Victorian-style insults or mild expletives like 'hell' or 'damn' appear, usually uttered by boys during moments of extreme stress or injury. There…

Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking depicted in To Best the Boys?

The protagonist and her father are scientists and apothecaries, so medicinal tinctures and chemical substances are frequently discussed and used for healing. Rhen uses her knowledge of chemistry to create remedies and navigate obstacles, treating the…

What mature themes appear in To Best the Boys?

Major themes include gender inequality, the right to education, and the ethics of a 'survival of the fittest' competition. Rhen deals with the grief of losing her mother to the Vane illness and the pressure of defying her society's rigid social structures by…

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