
So you want to be a wizard (1996) Parents Guide: Is the book OK for kids?
Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language
Thirteen-year-old Nita, tormented by a gang of bullies because she won't fight back, finds the help she needs in a library book on wizardry which guides her into another dimension.
Middle Grade • 1996 • 385 pages • Lexile 870L (roughly grades 4–5 reading difficulty)
So You Want to Be a Wizard is a seminal urban fantasy appropriate for middle-grade readers, focusing on 13-year-olds Nita and Kit as they discover magic while navigating real-world bullying. Parents should note a realistic scene of physical assault by bullies early in the book and a dark, atmospheric trip to a 'shadow' New York filled with mechanical predators. The story deals with sophisticated philosophical themes of sacrifice, the… Sign up for the full guide
Is So you want to be a wizard appropriate for kids?
So You Want to Be a Wizard is a seminal urban fantasy appropriate for middle-grade readers, focusing on 13-year-olds Nita and Kit as they discover magic while navigating real-world bullying. Parents should note a realistic scene of physical assault by bullies early in the book… Read more — free account
Content severity in So you want to be a wizard
What happens in So you want to be a wizard, moment by moment
- p. 5 🔥 Mature Themes 4/10
- p. 12 💬 Language 2/10
- p. 18 ⚔ Violence & Gore 5/10
Sex and nudity in So you want to be a wizard
The book contains no sexual content, romantic subplots, or even mild flirtation. The relationship between Nita and Kit is strictly a burgeoning friendship and magical partnership based on mutual trust and the shared experience of wizardry. The tone remains wholesome and focused on the intellectual and ethical development of the protagonists. This lack of romance is typical for early urban fantasy aimed at a middle-grade audience.
Violence and gore in So you want to be a wizard
Violence is moderate for the genre but contains a realistic and upsetting scene of Nita being physically beaten and bruised by Joanne and her gang early in Chapter 1. Later scenes transition into high-fantasy peril, featuring sentient, predatory machines like taxicabs and helicopters that hunt biological life in an alternate dimension. The protagonists face a dragon-like fireworm and various malevolent shadows during the climax. While there is no gore, the sense of physical threat and the descriptions of the dark…
Read more — free accountLanguage in So you want to be a wizard
Language is very mild and appropriate for the target age group. Occasional use of 'shut up' or mild insults such as 'weirdo' appear primarily in the context of the bullies mocking Nita. There is no profanity, including the absence of any 'damn' or 'hell' variations. The dialogue between the two protagonists is respectful and focused on problem-solving. Some of the elder wizards use a slightly more formal or archaic tone that is devoid of coarse language.
Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in So you want to be a wizard
There is no usage of alcohol, drugs, or tobacco products within the story. The narrative focuses strictly on the protagonists' magical education and their efforts to protect the city from metaphysical threats. Consistent with its middle-grade target audience, the characters do not encounter or engage with any prohibited substances. Even peripheral adult characters are not depicted drinking or smoking. The focus remains entirely on the 'Ordeal' and the magical mechanics of the universe.
Mature themes in So you want to be a wizard
Strong themes of cosmic entropy are personified through The Lone Power, the entity responsible for introducing death into the universe. The narrative explores the necessity of mortality, the morality of personal choice, and the physical and emotional toll of standing up to existential evil. Nita deals with intense feelings of isolation and powerlessness due to bullying before finding her voice. The story emphasizes that magic is a heavy responsibility requiring great personal sacrifice rather than a source of easy…
Read more — free accountFrequently Asked Questions
Is So you want to be a wizard appropriate for kids?
Bontent's parent guide suggests So you want to be a wizard is best for ages 10+. So You Want to Be a Wizard is a seminal urban fantasy appropriate for middle-grade readers, focusing on 13-year-olds Nita and Kit as they discover magic while navigating real-world bullying. Parents should note a…
What age rating does So you want to be a wizard have?
Books don't carry official age ratings. So you want to be a wizard is published for a Middle Grade audience, and Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 10+.
What reading level is So you want to be a wizard?
So you want to be a wizard is 385 pages and its reading level is Lexile 870L (roughly grades 4–5 reading difficulty). Bontent recommends it for ages 10+.
What is So you want to be a wizard about?
So You Want to Be a Wizard is a seminal urban fantasy appropriate for middle-grade readers, focusing on 13-year-olds Nita and Kit as they discover magic while navigating real-world bullying. Parents should note a realistic scene of physical assault by bullies early in the book and a dark, atmospheric trip to a…
Is there sex or nudity in So you want to be a wizard?
The book contains no sexual content, romantic subplots, or even mild flirtation. The relationship between Nita and Kit is strictly a burgeoning friendship and magical partnership based on mutual trust and the shared experience of wizardry. The tone remains…
How violent is So you want to be a wizard?
Violence is moderate for the genre but contains a realistic and upsetting scene of Nita being physically beaten and bruised by Joanne and her gang early in Chapter 1. Later scenes transition into high-fantasy peril, featuring sentient, predatory machines like…
Is the language in So you want to be a wizard appropriate for kids?
Language is very mild and appropriate for the target age group. Occasional use of 'shut up' or mild insults such as 'weirdo' appear primarily in the context of the bullies mocking Nita. There is no profanity, including the absence of any 'damn' or 'hell'…
Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking depicted in So you want to be a wizard?
There is no usage of alcohol, drugs, or tobacco products within the story. The narrative focuses strictly on the protagonists' magical education and their efforts to protect the city from metaphysical threats. Consistent with its middle-grade target audience…
What mature themes appear in So you want to be a wizard?
Strong themes of cosmic entropy are personified through The Lone Power, the entity responsible for introducing death into the universe. The narrative explores the necessity of mortality, the morality of personal choice, and the physical and emotional toll of…
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