Regretting You (2019) Parents Guide: Is the book OK for kids?

A sexual scene between the two teenage characters, Clara and Miller, is described with moderate detail, more explicit than typical clean YA but not extremely graphic. The narrative focuses on the emotional intimacy and physical sensations as the two lose their virginity together in Miller's bedroom. Outside of this central scene, there are multiple instances of passionate kissing, heavy petting, and discussions about birth control and readiness. The book also explores the legacy of unplanned pregnancy, as Morgan…

A car accident kills two major characters (Morgan's husband Chris and her sister Jenny) near the book's opening; the crash and its aftermath are referenced throughout but not depicted in graphic physical detail. The focus is on the emotional trauma of the hospital scene where Morgan learns of the deaths rather than the gore of the injuries. There is a tense moment where Clara's grandfather is portrayed as a stern, somewhat intimidating figure, leading to verbal conflict. A scene involves a character being pushed…

Occasional strong language among teen and adult characters. The dialogue includes frequent use of 'f*ck' and 's*it' during high-stress arguments, particularly between Morgan and Clara as their relationship deteriorates. Other terms like 'hell,' 'damn,' and 'bitch' appear in various chapters to underscore the raw emotional state of the protagonists. The language is consistent with Hoover's adult contemporary brand, meant to reflect realistic speech for characters in crisis. While not gratuitous, the profanity is…

Minor references to teen drinking at social gatherings; no significant substance abuse. Clara attends a party where alcohol is present and peers are shown drinking, though she remains relatively cautious. There are mentions of characters using wine or beer to cope with stress or to relax during social dinners. Miller’s home life involves a grandfather who is described in a way that implies a gruff, perhaps alcohol-influenced demeanor, though this is not a central plot point. The book does not glamorize substance…

Themes include grief after sudden, tragic loss, family secrets and infidelity, the fallout of an affair on multiple generations, and mother-daughter conflict and eventual reconciliation. The narrative heavily features the psychological toll of discovering a loved one was not who they seemed to be, leading to feelings of anger and betrayal toward the deceased. Secondary themes involve the pressure of parental expectations versus personal dreams, as seen in Miller's struggle with his grandfather and his passion for…