
Hopeless (2022) Parents Guide: Is the book OK for kids?
Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language
Sky, a senior in high school, meets Dean Holder, a guy with a promiscuous reputation that rivals her own. From their very first encounter, he terrifies and captivates her. Something about him sparks memories of her deeply troubled past, a time she's tried so hard to bury. Though Sky is determined to stay far away from him, his unwavering pursuit and enigmatic smile break down her defences and the intensity of the bond between them grows. But the mysterious Holder has been keeping secrets of his own, and once they are revealed, Sky is… Sign up for the full guide
YA • 2022 • 416 pages • Grade 9-12
Hopeless is a heavy contemporary romance that earns its older teen rating through intense emotional triggers and mature subject matter. While the romance includes descriptive sexual tension and semi-explicit encounters, the primary concerns for parents are the serious themes of childhood sexual abuse, incest, and suicide. This book is intended for mature YA readers who can handle traumatic backstories and high-stakes emotional drama.
Is Hopeless appropriate for kids?
Hopeless is a heavy contemporary romance that earns its older teen rating through intense emotional triggers and mature subject matter. While the romance includes descriptive sexual tension and semi-explicit encounters, the primary concerns for parents are the serious themes of… Read more — free account
Content severity in Hopeless
What happens in Hopeless, moment by moment
- p. 12 💬 Language 4/10
- p. 28 🔥 Mature Themes 3/10
- p. 45 ♥ Sex & Nudity 3/10
Sex and nudity in Hopeless
The book contains several descriptive scenes of heavy making out, manual stimulation, and semi-explicit sexual encounters. While not as explicit as adult erotica, the descriptions focus heavily on physical sensation and arousal. Sky and Holder engage in prolonged sequences of foreplay and intimacy that are detailed in terms of physical reaction and desire. There are also discussions about reputations and past sexual history, specifically regarding Sky's inability to feel anything with previous boys. The narrative…
Read more — free accountViolence and gore in Hopeless
Physical violence is present in the form of a physical altercation between teenagers and, more significantly, the backstory involving child abuse. A character is struck in the face at one point, and there are intense descriptions of emotional and physical trauma related to past crimes. Holder displays frequent outbursts of physical aggression, such as punching walls or lockers when he is unable to process his anger. The domestic violence mentioned in the backstory involves the predatory actions of Sky's father…
Read more — free accountLanguage in Hopeless
Moderate to heavy use of profanity throughout, including multiple uses of 'f*ck,' 'sh*t,' 'b*tch,' and 'asshole.' The language is typical for a gritty New Adult or mature YA contemporary novel, reflecting the raw emotions of the teenage protagonists. Sky and her friend Six often use casual profanity in their dialogue to express frustration or humor. During moments of high conflict or emotional distress, the density of 'f-words' increases significantly. There are also instances where derogatory terms are used by…
Read more — free accountDrugs, alcohol, and smoking in Hopeless
There are mentions of teenage drinking at parties and occasional references to characters using alcohol to cope with stress, though it is not the primary focus of the plot. At various social gatherings, characters are surrounded by beer and light alcohol consumption typical of high school environments. Holder’s mother is mentioned as having drinks to manage her grief, and Sky witnesses the effects of alcohol on her peers. There are no major scenes involving hard drugs or narcotics, but the normalization of…
Read more — free accountMature themes in Hopeless
This is a very high-theme book involving childhood sexual abuse (incest), kidnapping, suicide, and the fallout of deep-seated family secrets. The revelation of Sky's true identity as Hope and the trauma she suffered as a child are central and very distressing to the narrative. The plot deals heavily with the suicide of Les and the crushing weight of grief that follows for Holder and his family. Serious questions about morality, paternal betrayal, and survival are raised throughout the second half of the novel. The…
Read more — free accountFrequently Asked Questions
Is Hopeless appropriate for kids?
Bontent's parent guide suggests Hopeless is best for ages 17+. Hopeless is a heavy contemporary romance that earns its older teen rating through intense emotional triggers and mature subject matter. While the romance includes descriptive sexual tension and semi-explicit encounters…
What age rating does Hopeless have?
Books don't carry official age ratings. Hopeless is published for a YA audience, and Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 17+.
What reading level is Hopeless?
Hopeless is 416 pages and its reading level is Grade 9-12. Bontent recommends it for ages 17+.
What is Hopeless about?
Hopeless is a heavy contemporary romance that earns its older teen rating through intense emotional triggers and mature subject matter. While the romance includes descriptive sexual tension and semi-explicit encounters, the primary concerns for parents are the serious themes of childhood sexual abuse, incest, and…
Is there sex or nudity in Hopeless?
The book contains several descriptive scenes of heavy making out, manual stimulation, and semi-explicit sexual encounters. While not as explicit as adult erotica, the descriptions focus heavily on physical sensation and arousal. Sky and Holder engage in…
How violent is Hopeless?
Physical violence is present in the form of a physical altercation between teenagers and, more significantly, the backstory involving child abuse. A character is struck in the face at one point, and there are intense descriptions of emotional and physical…
Is the language in Hopeless appropriate for kids?
Moderate to heavy use of profanity throughout, including multiple uses of 'f*ck,' 'sh*t,' 'b*tch,' and 'asshole.' The language is typical for a gritty New Adult or mature YA contemporary novel, reflecting the raw emotions of the teenage protagonists. Sky and…
Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking depicted in Hopeless?
There are mentions of teenage drinking at parties and occasional references to characters using alcohol to cope with stress, though it is not the primary focus of the plot. At various social gatherings, characters are surrounded by beer and light alcohol…
What mature themes appear in Hopeless?
This is a very high-theme book involving childhood sexual abuse (incest), kidnapping, suicide, and the fallout of deep-seated family secrets. The revelation of Sky's true identity as Hope and the trauma she suffered as a child are central and very distressing…
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