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You've Got Mail (1998) Parents Guide: Is the movie OK for kids?

Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language

Book superstore magnate Joe Fox and independent book shop owner Kathleen Kelly fall in love in the anonymity of the Internet—both blissfully unaware that he's trying to put her out of business.

Rated PG • 1998 • 1h 59m

Age
10+

Two rival bookstore owners unknowingly fall in love through an anonymous email correspondence while clashing in their professional lives. The film is rated PG and suitable for children ages 10 and up due to very mild language and sophisticated themes regarding corporate competition and professional loss. Parents should note that while the romance is wholesome, the story involves mature emotional transitions as a small business owner… Sign up for the full guide

Cast

Meg Ryan
Meg Ryan
Tom Hanks
Tom Hanks
Greg Kinnear
Greg Kinnear
Parker Posey
Parker Posey
Heather Burns
Heather Burns
Dave Chappelle
Dave Chappelle
Jean Stapleton
Jean Stapleton
Steve Zahn
Steve Zahn
Dabney Coleman
Dabney Coleman
John Randolph
John Randolph
Hallee Hirsh
Hallee Hirsh
Jeffrey Scaperrotta
Jeffrey Scaperrotta
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Is You've Got Mail appropriate for kids?

Two rival bookstore owners unknowingly fall in love through an anonymous email correspondence while clashing in their professional lives. The film is rated PG and suitable for children ages 10 and up due to very mild language and sophisticated themes regarding corporate… Read more — free account

Content severity in You've Got Mail

Sex None 0/10
Violence None 0/10
Language None 0/10
Substances None 0/10
Themes Strong 5/10

What happens in You've Got Mail, moment by moment

  1. 0:12 🔥 Mature Themes 3/10
  2. 0:45 🔥 Mature Themes 4/10
  3. 1:15 🔥 Mature Themes 5/10
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Sex and nudity in You've Got Mail

None.

Violence and gore in You've Got Mail

None.

Language in You've Got Mail

Very mild. Consistent with PG.

Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in You've Got Mail

None.

Mature themes in You've Got Mail

Small business vs corporate chain — the film is honest that the chain wins even while the romance works out. The loneliness and possibility of early online anonymity. A woman's professional loss and personal gain — the film's unresolved tension about whether the trade-off is acceptable.

Scary moments in You've Got Mail

No standout scary moments have been catalogued for You've Got Mail yet. Because this title is recommended for younger kids, sign up to get community-flagged jump scares, tense scenes, and startling imagery as parents submit them.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is You've Got Mail appropriate for kids?

Bontent's parent guide suggests You've Got Mail is best for ages 10+. It's rated PG. Two rival bookstore owners unknowingly fall in love through an anonymous email correspondence while clashing in their professional lives. The film is rated PG and suitable for children ages 10 and up due to very mild…

What age rating does You've Got Mail have?

You've Got Mail is officially rated PG. Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 10+.

What is You've Got Mail about?

Two rival bookstore owners unknowingly fall in love through an anonymous email correspondence while clashing in their professional lives. The film is rated PG and suitable for children ages 10 and up due to very mild language and sophisticated themes regarding corporate competition and professional loss. Parents…

Is there sex or nudity in You've Got Mail?

None.

How violent is You've Got Mail?

None.

Is the language in You've Got Mail appropriate for kids?

Very mild. Consistent with PG.

Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking shown in You've Got Mail?

None.

What mature themes appear in You've Got Mail?

Small business vs corporate chain — the film is honest that the chain wins even while the romance works out. The loneliness and possibility of early online anonymity. A woman's professional loss and personal gain — the film's unresolved tension about whether…

How long is You've Got Mail?

You've Got Mail runs 119 minutes, directed by Nora Ephron, released in 1998.

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