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The Proposal (2009) Parents Guide: Is the movie OK for kids?

Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language

When she learns she's in danger of losing her visa status and being deported, overbearing book editor Margaret Tate forces her put-upon assistant, Andrew Paxton, to marry her.

Rated PG-13 • 2009 • 1h 48m

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The Proposal is a romantic comedy centered on high-powered New York book editor Margaret Tate, who forces her assistant, Andrew, into a fake marriage to avoid deportation. The film received a PG-13 rating primarily for sexual situations, brief nudity, and moderate language. Parents should be aware of several scenes involving male stripping, suggestive dialogue, and recurring insults. It is best suited for older teens and adults… Sign up for the full guide

Cast

Sandra Bullock
Sandra Bullock
Ryan Reynolds
Ryan Reynolds
Malin Åkerman
Malin Åkerman
Craig T. Nelson
Craig T. Nelson
Mary Steenburgen
Mary Steenburgen
Betty White
Betty White
Denis O'Hare
Denis O'Hare
Oscar Nuñez
Oscar Nuñez
Aasif Mandvi
Aasif Mandvi
Michael Nouri
Michael Nouri
Gregg Edelman
Gregg Edelman
Michael Mosley
Michael Mosley
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Is The Proposal appropriate for kids?

The Proposal is a romantic comedy centered on high-powered New York book editor Margaret Tate, who forces her assistant, Andrew, into a fake marriage to avoid deportation. The film received a PG-13 rating primarily for sexual situations, brief nudity, and moderate language… Read more — free account

Content severity in The Proposal

Sex Strong 7/10
Violence Moderate 4/10
Language Strong 5/10
Substances Moderate 3/10
Themes Strong 5/10

What happens in The Proposal, moment by moment

  1. 0:12 💬 Language 5/10
  2. 0:15 ⚔ Violence & Gore 3/10
  3. 0:20 🍷 Substances 3/10
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Sex and nudity in The Proposal

The film features multiple suggestive sequences, including a male exotic dancer performing in tight underwear and a scene where a man and woman accidentally end up naked in bed together. Close-up shots of a male stripper occur during a bachelorette party scene, and there are several mentions of sexual encounters and anatomy.

Violence and gore in The Proposal

Violence is largely comedic and mild, consisting of physical pratfalls, slapping, and intense verbal arguments. One scene involves a dog being briefly snatched by an eagle, though it is unharmed. Another moment features a woman accidentally falling out of a speeding boat and nearly drowning.

Language in The Proposal

Language is moderate and includes terms like 'bitch,' 'shit,' 'ass,' 'damn,' and 'piss.' There is frequent name-calling and some derogatory remarks about immigration status used in a negative context.

Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in The Proposal

Alcohol consumption is a recurring element, with characters frequently shown drinking in social and bar settings. Characters are seen holding wine and liquor bottles, and there is dialogue about being 'bombarded' or intoxicated.

Mature themes in The Proposal

Themes include workplace abuse, power dynamics, prejudice regarding immigrant employees, and grief related to the loss of parents. Characters struggle with family reconciliation and the pressure to maintain a facade to keep a job.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is The Proposal appropriate for kids?

Bontent's parent guide suggests The Proposal is best for ages 13+. It's rated PG-13. The Proposal is a romantic comedy centered on high-powered New York book editor Margaret Tate, who forces her assistant, Andrew, into a fake marriage to avoid deportation. The film received a PG-13 rating primarily for…

What age rating does The Proposal have?

The Proposal is officially rated PG-13. Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 13+.

What is The Proposal about?

The Proposal is a romantic comedy centered on high-powered New York book editor Margaret Tate, who forces her assistant, Andrew, into a fake marriage to avoid deportation. The film received a PG-13 rating primarily for sexual situations, brief nudity, and moderate language. Parents should be aware of several scenes…

Is there sex or nudity in The Proposal?

The film features multiple suggestive sequences, including a male exotic dancer performing in tight underwear and a scene where a man and woman accidentally end up naked in bed together. Close-up shots of a male stripper occur during a bachelorette party…

How violent is The Proposal?

Violence is largely comedic and mild, consisting of physical pratfalls, slapping, and intense verbal arguments. One scene involves a dog being briefly snatched by an eagle, though it is unharmed. Another moment features a woman accidentally falling out of a…

Is the language in The Proposal appropriate for kids?

Language is moderate and includes terms like 'bitch,' 'shit,' 'ass,' 'damn,' and 'piss.' There is frequent name-calling and some derogatory remarks about immigration status used in a negative context.

Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking shown in The Proposal?

Alcohol consumption is a recurring element, with characters frequently shown drinking in social and bar settings. Characters are seen holding wine and liquor bottles, and there is dialogue about being 'bombarded' or intoxicated.

What mature themes appear in The Proposal?

Themes include workplace abuse, power dynamics, prejudice regarding immigrant employees, and grief related to the loss of parents. Characters struggle with family reconciliation and the pressure to maintain a facade to keep a job.

How long is The Proposal?

The Proposal runs 108 minutes, directed by Anne Fletcher, released in 2009.

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