
The First Time (2012) Parents Guide: Is the movie OK for kids?
Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language
A spark of attraction smolders, then ignites, between two teens from different high schools who meet by chance at a party.
Rated PG-13 • 2012 • 1h 35m
The First Time is a teen romance centered on the awkward development of a relationship between two high schoolers, Dave and Aubrey. The film explores themes of sexual awakening, peer pressure, and the anxieties of young adulthood. Parents should be aware of frequent profanity, underage drinking, and a central plot point involving an attempted sexual encounter. While the film is aimed at teenagers, its focus on sexual themes makes it… Sign up for the full guide
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Is The First Time appropriate for kids?
The First Time is a teen romance centered on the awkward development of a relationship between two high schoolers, Dave and Aubrey. The film explores themes of sexual awakening, peer pressure, and the anxieties of young adulthood. Parents should be aware of frequent profanity… Read more — free account
Content severity in The First Time
What happens in The First Time, moment by moment
- 0:05 🍷 Substances 3/10
- 0:12 ♥ Sex & Nudity 3/10
- 0:25 💬 Language 4/10
Sex and nudity in The First Time
The film contains recurring discussions regarding virginity and sexual expectations among teens. One scene shows characters nearly engaging in intercourse, involving the retrieval of a condom and partial nudity of the male character. Other moments include kissing, heavy petting, and brief scenes of implied nudity.
Violence and gore in The First Time
Violence is minimal and non-graphic. It is limited to a brief altercation where a character is shoved, and a fleeting shot of a post-accident vehicle aftermath.
Language in The First Time
Profanity is frequent and includes one use of the F-word, dozens of uses of 'shit,' and various derogatory terms like 'bitch' and 'asshole.'
Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in The First Time
Underage drinking is a recurring element, appearing at house parties and in personal living spaces. Characters are shown consuming wine and appearing under the influence.
Mature themes in The First Time
The film deals with mature social dynamics, including relationship jealousy, parental disconnect, and the emotional pressures associated with a 'first time.'
Frequently Asked Questions
Is The First Time appropriate for kids?
Bontent's parent guide suggests The First Time is best for ages 14+. It's rated PG-13. The First Time is a teen romance centered on the awkward development of a relationship between two high schoolers, Dave and Aubrey. The film explores themes of sexual awakening, peer pressure, and the anxieties of young…
What age rating does The First Time have?
The First Time is officially rated PG-13. Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 14+.
What is The First Time about?
The First Time is a teen romance centered on the awkward development of a relationship between two high schoolers, Dave and Aubrey. The film explores themes of sexual awakening, peer pressure, and the anxieties of young adulthood. Parents should be aware of frequent profanity, underage drinking, and a central plot…
Is there sex or nudity in The First Time?
The film contains recurring discussions regarding virginity and sexual expectations among teens. One scene shows characters nearly engaging in intercourse, involving the retrieval of a condom and partial nudity of the male character. Other moments include…
How violent is The First Time?
Violence is minimal and non-graphic. It is limited to a brief altercation where a character is shoved, and a fleeting shot of a post-accident vehicle aftermath.
Is the language in The First Time appropriate for kids?
Profanity is frequent and includes one use of the F-word, dozens of uses of 'shit,' and various derogatory terms like 'bitch' and 'asshole.'
Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking shown in The First Time?
Underage drinking is a recurring element, appearing at house parties and in personal living spaces. Characters are shown consuming wine and appearing under the influence.
What mature themes appear in The First Time?
The film deals with mature social dynamics, including relationship jealousy, parental disconnect, and the emotional pressures associated with a 'first time.'
How long is The First Time?
The First Time runs 95 minutes, directed by Jon Kasdan, released in 2012.
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