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In & Out (1997) Parents Guide: Is the movie OK for kids?

Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language

A midwestern teacher questions his sexuality after a former student makes a comment about him at the Academy Awards.

Rated PG-13 • 1997 • 1h 30m

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A small-town English teacher is publicly outed as gay during an Oscars acceptance speech by a former student — three days before his wedding. Kevin Kline and Tom Selleck. PG-13 is appropriate.

Cast

Kevin Kline
Kevin Kline
Joan Cusack
Joan Cusack
Tom Selleck
Tom Selleck
Matt Dillon
Matt Dillon
Debbie Reynolds
Debbie Reynolds
Wilford Brimley
Wilford Brimley
Bob Newhart
Bob Newhart
Gregory Jbara
Gregory Jbara
Shalom Harlow
Shalom Harlow
Shawn Hatosy
Shawn Hatosy
Zak Orth
Zak Orth
Lauren Ambrose
Lauren Ambrose
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Is In & Out appropriate for kids?

A small-town English teacher is publicly outed as gay during an Oscars acceptance speech by a former student — three days before his wedding. Kevin Kline and Tom Selleck. PG-13 is appropriate. Read more — free account

Content severity in In & Out

Sex Moderate 3/10
Violence None 0/10
Language Moderate 3/10
Substances None 0/10
Themes Strong 5/10

What happens in In & Out, moment by moment

  1. 0:08 🔥 Mature Themes 4/10
  2. 0:15 💬 Language 3/10
  3. 0:42 🔥 Mature Themes 5/10
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Sex and nudity in In & Out

The film features a prolonged and passionate kiss between two men that serves as a pivotal moment for the protagonist, presented with both comedic and emotional weight. There are also several jokes involving sexual orientation and identity, though the content avoids explicit nudity or graphic encounters. The romantic elements primarily focus on the social complications of a wedding and the character's internal discovery.

Violence and gore in In & Out

There is no physical violence or gore depicted in this lighthearted comedy. The conflict is entirely social and verbal, centered on the fallout of a public announcement during a broadcast. As a PG-13 film, it relies on farcical situations rather than any form of physical aggression or threat.

Language in In & Out

The film contains moderate profanity consistent with its rating, including several uses of 'hell,' 'damn,' and 'ass.' There are a few instances of stronger terms and frequent dialogue utilizing slurs or labels regarding sexual orientation, though these are used within the context of the plot's social commentary. The language is used for character development and to highlight the shock of the small-town community.

Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in In & Out

There is no significant use of illegal drugs or heavy alcohol consumption featured in the movie. Characters may be seen in social settings where alcohol is present, such as a wedding reception or a bar, but intoxication is not a plot point. The film strictly avoids depicting substance abuse, maintaining its focus on the protagonist's identity crisis.

Mature themes in In & Out

A comedy about coming out that manages to be both funny and genuinely moving. Kevin Kline's Howard is a man who has suppressed his identity so completely he doesn't know it himself. Tom Selleck's reporter is written with unexpected sympathy.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is In & Out appropriate for kids?

Bontent's parent guide suggests In & Out is best for ages 13+. It's rated PG-13. A small-town English teacher is publicly outed as gay during an Oscars acceptance speech by a former student — three days before his wedding. Kevin Kline and Tom Selleck. PG-13 is appropriate.

What age rating does In & Out have?

In & Out is officially rated PG-13. Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 13+.

What is In & Out about?

A small-town English teacher is publicly outed as gay during an Oscars acceptance speech by a former student — three days before his wedding. Kevin Kline and Tom Selleck. PG-13 is appropriate.

Is there sex or nudity in In & Out?

The film features a prolonged and passionate kiss between two men that serves as a pivotal moment for the protagonist, presented with both comedic and emotional weight. There are also several jokes involving sexual orientation and identity, though the content…

How violent is In & Out?

There is no physical violence or gore depicted in this lighthearted comedy. The conflict is entirely social and verbal, centered on the fallout of a public announcement during a broadcast. As a PG-13 film, it relies on farcical situations rather than any form…

Is the language in In & Out appropriate for kids?

The film contains moderate profanity consistent with its rating, including several uses of 'hell,' 'damn,' and 'ass.' There are a few instances of stronger terms and frequent dialogue utilizing slurs or labels regarding sexual orientation, though these are…

Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking shown in In & Out?

There is no significant use of illegal drugs or heavy alcohol consumption featured in the movie. Characters may be seen in social settings where alcohol is present, such as a wedding reception or a bar, but intoxication is not a plot point. The film strictly…

What mature themes appear in In & Out?

A comedy about coming out that manages to be both funny and genuinely moving. Kevin Kline's Howard is a man who has suppressed his identity so completely he doesn't know it himself. Tom Selleck's reporter is written with unexpected sympathy.

How long is In & Out?

In & Out runs 90 minutes, directed by Frank Oz, released in 1997.

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