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How to Lose Friends & Alienate People (2008) Parents Guide: Is the movie OK for kids?

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Sidney Young is a down-on-his-luck journalist. Thanks to a stint involving a pig and a glitzy awards ceremony, Sidney turns his fortunes around, attracting the attention of Clayton Harding, editor of New York-based glossy magazine 'Sharps', and landing the holy grail of journalism jobs. The Brit jets off to the Big Apple and moves from one blunder to the next.

Rated R • 2008 • 1h 50m

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How to Lose Friends & Alienate People (2008) is rated R primarily for frequent strong language, several scenes of nudity/sexualized gags, and brief drug material. Parents should be aware of on-screen breasts and rear nudity (including an office strip scene with a pre‑/post‑op trans reveal used for comic shock), persistent profanity (many f-words), drinking and a short cocaine-seeking scene, and an upsetting accidental death of a dog… Sign up for the full guide

Cast

Simon Pegg
Simon Pegg
Kirsten Dunst
Kirsten Dunst
Danny Huston
Danny Huston
Megan Fox
Megan Fox
Jeff Bridges
Jeff Bridges
Gillian Anderson
Gillian Anderson
Max Minghella
Max Minghella
Jefferson Mays
Jefferson Mays
Bill Paterson
Bill Paterson
Miriam Margolyes
Miriam Margolyes
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Kelan Pannell
Janette Scott
Janette Scott
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Is How to Lose Friends & Alienate People appropriate for kids?

How to Lose Friends & Alienate People (2008) is rated R primarily for frequent strong language, several scenes of nudity/sexualized gags, and brief drug material. Parents should be aware of on-screen breasts and rear nudity (including an office strip scene with a pre‑/post‑op… Read more — free account

Content severity in How to Lose Friends & Alienate People

Sex Strong 7/10
Violence Strong 6/10
Language Strong 7/10
Substances Strong 5/10
Themes Strong 5/10

What happens in How to Lose Friends & Alienate People, moment by moment

  1. 0:12 ♥ Sex & Nudity 4/10
  2. 0:18 💬 Language 7/10
  3. 0:22 🍷 Substances 4/10
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Sex and nudity in How to Lose Friends & Alienate People

Moderate-to-strong sexual content and explicit nudity appears several times. Specific moments: a woman strips in an office exposing her breasts while wearing obviously fake genitals (presented as a pre-op trans joke and seen by a wife and children), brief topless/underwear exposure at parties, and multiple instances of rear nudity. IMDb Parents Guide flags these scenes and notes that breasts and bare buttocks are shown on a few occasions.

Violence and gore in How to Lose Friends & Alienate People

Mostly mild physical comedy and scuffles, but one emotionally upsetting incident: Sidney accidentally kills actress Sophie Maes' dog (non-graphic) and conceals it. There are a few minor fights and a public on-stage confrontation near the end that becomes physical; injuries are minor and not graphic.

Language in How to Lose Friends & Alienate People

Frequent strong profanity throughout the film, including many uses of the f-word and other crude sexual terms; the IMDb Parents Guide documents around 28 uses of 'f***' plus numerous other vulgarities. The language is a consistent element of the film’s tone and appears in professional and social settings.

Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in How to Lose Friends & Alienate People

Moderate alcohol use and drunkenness in bars and parties; a brief scene involves an attempt to obtain cocaine to enhance sexual prospects. Characters smoke in background scenes but smoking is not a central focus.

Mature themes in How to Lose Friends & Alienate People

Recurring adult themes: career ambition and ethical compromise, public humiliation and the cult of celebrity, workplace affairs (Alison and Lawrence), and identity used for comic effect (the transgender reveal is played as a gag). The accidental death of a pet (Sophie’s dog) is a clear emotional beat.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is How to Lose Friends & Alienate People appropriate for kids?

Bontent's parent guide suggests How to Lose Friends & Alienate People is best for ages 13+. It's rated R. How to Lose Friends & Alienate People (2008) is rated R primarily for frequent strong language, several scenes of nudity/sexualized gags, and brief drug material. Parents should be aware of on-screen breasts and rear…

What age rating does How to Lose Friends & Alienate People have?

How to Lose Friends & Alienate People is officially rated R. Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 13+.

What is How to Lose Friends & Alienate People about?

How to Lose Friends & Alienate People (2008) is rated R primarily for frequent strong language, several scenes of nudity/sexualized gags, and brief drug material. Parents should be aware of on-screen breasts and rear nudity (including an office strip scene with a pre‑/post‑op trans reveal used for comic shock)…

Is there sex or nudity in How to Lose Friends & Alienate People?

Moderate-to-strong sexual content and explicit nudity appears several times. Specific moments: a woman strips in an office exposing her breasts while wearing obviously fake genitals (presented as a pre-op trans joke and seen by a wife and children), brief…

How violent is How to Lose Friends & Alienate People?

Mostly mild physical comedy and scuffles, but one emotionally upsetting incident: Sidney accidentally kills actress Sophie Maes' dog (non-graphic) and conceals it. There are a few minor fights and a public on-stage confrontation near the end that becomes…

Is the language in How to Lose Friends & Alienate People appropriate for kids?

Frequent strong profanity throughout the film, including many uses of the f-word and other crude sexual terms; the IMDb Parents Guide documents around 28 uses of 'f***' plus numerous other vulgarities. The language is a consistent element of the film’s tone…

Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking shown in How to Lose Friends & Alienate People?

Moderate alcohol use and drunkenness in bars and parties; a brief scene involves an attempt to obtain cocaine to enhance sexual prospects. Characters smoke in background scenes but smoking is not a central focus.

What mature themes appear in How to Lose Friends & Alienate People?

Recurring adult themes: career ambition and ethical compromise, public humiliation and the cult of celebrity, workplace affairs (Alison and Lawrence), and identity used for comic effect (the transgender reveal is played as a gag). The accidental death of a…

How long is How to Lose Friends & Alienate People?

How to Lose Friends & Alienate People runs 110 minutes, directed by Robert B. Weide, released in 2008.

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