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Connie and Carla (2004) Parents Guide: Is the movie OK for kids?

Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language

After accidentally witnessing a mafia hit in the Windy City, gal pals Connie and Carla skip town for L.A., where they go way undercover as singers working the city's dinner theater circuit ... disguised as drag queens. Now, it's not enough that they become big hits on the scene; things get extra-weird when Connie meets Jeff -- a guy she'd like to be a woman with.

Rated PG-13 • 2004 • 1h 38m

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Connie and Carla earns its PG-13 rating for a mix of thematic elements, sexual humor, and a scene of mob violence. After witnessing a shooting, singers Connie and Carla hide from the mob by posing as drag queens in a Los Angeles gay club. The film's humor is largely derived from their mistaken identities, with moderate sexual innuendo and banter about gender and relationships. There are also brief drug references and mild language… Sign up for the full guide

Cast

Nia Vardalos
Nia Vardalos
Toni Collette
Toni Collette
David Duchovny
David Duchovny
Stephen Spinella
Stephen Spinella
Alec Mapa
Alec Mapa
Ian Gomez
Ian Gomez
Nick Sandow
Nick Sandow
Dash Mihok
Dash Mihok
Robert John Burke
Robert John Burke
Boris McGiver
Boris McGiver
Debbie Reynolds
Debbie Reynolds
Veena Sood
Veena Sood
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Is Connie and Carla appropriate for kids?

Connie and Carla earns its PG-13 rating for a mix of thematic elements, sexual humor, and a scene of mob violence. After witnessing a shooting, singers Connie and Carla hide from the mob by posing as drag queens in a Los Angeles gay club. The film's humor is largely derived from… Read more — free account

Content severity in Connie and Carla

Sex Moderate 4/10
Violence Strong 6/10
Language Moderate 3/10
Substances Moderate 4/10
Themes Strong 5/10

What happens in Connie and Carla, moment by moment

  1. 0:06 🍷 Substances 4/10
  2. 0:08 ⚔ Violence & Gore 6/10
  3. 0:10 🔥 Mature Themes 5/10
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Sex and nudity in Connie and Carla

Content is limited to moderate sexual humor and innuendo. As Connie and Carla are pretending to be men who are impersonating women, many jokes revolve around gender and anatomy (e.g., padding bras, references to "tucking"). Connie develops a crush on a man, Jeff, leading to awkward and suggestive conversations. There is no nudity, and romance is limited to kissing.

Violence and gore in Connie and Carla

The film is framed by mild comic violence. Early in the film, Connie and Carla witness a mob-related shooting where a man is shot; the initial wound is briefly seen but it is not graphic, and the death occurs off-screen. The climax involves the mobsters finding the women, leading to a chase and fight on stage. This confrontation is played for laughs, with characters being hit with props and tied up, with the audience thinking it is part of the show.

Language in Connie and Carla

Language is infrequent and mild, consistent with a PG-13 rating. Viewers can expect to hear occasional uses of "ass," "bitch," "hell," and "damn." There is some name-calling but no use of the f-word.

Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in Connie and Carla

Substance use is present but not a focus. In an early scene, characters discuss a bag of cocaine before a mob hit occurs. Characters drink alcohol socially in club and restaurant settings throughout the film. There is no on-screen use of illegal drugs.

Mature themes in Connie and Carla

The central themes involve identity, friendship, and acceptance within the LGBTQ+ community, particularly the drag scene. The main plot device of hiding from mobsters introduces themes of mortal peril and living a life of deception. The film also explores the challenges and triumphs of pursuing one's dreams against the odds.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is Connie and Carla appropriate for kids?

Bontent's parent guide suggests Connie and Carla is best for ages 13+. It's rated PG-13. Connie and Carla earns its PG-13 rating for a mix of thematic elements, sexual humor, and a scene of mob violence. After witnessing a shooting, singers Connie and Carla hide from the mob by posing as drag queens in a…

What age rating does Connie and Carla have?

Connie and Carla is officially rated PG-13. Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 13+.

What is Connie and Carla about?

Connie and Carla earns its PG-13 rating for a mix of thematic elements, sexual humor, and a scene of mob violence. After witnessing a shooting, singers Connie and Carla hide from the mob by posing as drag queens in a Los Angeles gay club. The film's humor is largely derived from their mistaken identities, with…

Is there sex or nudity in Connie and Carla?

Content is limited to moderate sexual humor and innuendo. As Connie and Carla are pretending to be men who are impersonating women, many jokes revolve around gender and anatomy (e.g., padding bras, references to "tucking"). Connie develops a crush on a man…

How violent is Connie and Carla?

The film is framed by mild comic violence. Early in the film, Connie and Carla witness a mob-related shooting where a man is shot; the initial wound is briefly seen but it is not graphic, and the death occurs off-screen. The climax involves the mobsters…

Is the language in Connie and Carla appropriate for kids?

Language is infrequent and mild, consistent with a PG-13 rating. Viewers can expect to hear occasional uses of "ass," "bitch," "hell," and "damn." There is some name-calling but no use of the f-word.

Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking shown in Connie and Carla?

Substance use is present but not a focus. In an early scene, characters discuss a bag of cocaine before a mob hit occurs. Characters drink alcohol socially in club and restaurant settings throughout the film. There is no on-screen use of illegal drugs.

What mature themes appear in Connie and Carla?

The central themes involve identity, friendship, and acceptance within the LGBTQ+ community, particularly the drag scene. The main plot device of hiding from mobsters introduces themes of mortal peril and living a life of deception. The film also explores the…

How long is Connie and Carla?

Connie and Carla runs 98 minutes, directed by Michael Lembeck, released in 2004.

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