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Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004) Parents Guide: Is the movie OK for kids?

Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language

Joel Barish, heartbroken that his girlfriend underwent a procedure to erase him from her memory, decides to do the same. However, as he watches his memories of her fade away, he realises that he still loves her, and may be too late to correct his mistake.

Rated R • 2004 • 1h 48m

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A man undergoing a procedure to erase his ex-girlfriend from his memory realises, inside the process, that he wants to keep her. A wildly inventive, deeply romantic film about memory and love. The R rating is primarily for language and some sexuality. One of the most original films on this list and one of the most accessible R-rated films for mature teenagers.

Cast

Jim Carrey
Jim Carrey
Kate Winslet
Kate Winslet
Kirsten Dunst
Kirsten Dunst
Mark Ruffalo
Mark Ruffalo
Elijah Wood
Elijah Wood
Tom Wilkinson
Tom Wilkinson
Jane Adams
Jane Adams
David Cross
David Cross
Deirdre O'Connell
Deirdre O'Connell
Thomas Jay Ryan
Thomas Jay Ryan
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Ryan Whitney
Lola Daehler
Lola Daehler
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Is Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind appropriate for kids?

A man undergoing a procedure to erase his ex-girlfriend from his memory realises, inside the process, that he wants to keep her. A wildly inventive, deeply romantic film about memory and love. The R rating is primarily for language and some sexuality. One of the most original… Read more — free account

Content severity in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

Sex Moderate 4/10
Violence None 0/10
Language Moderate 4/10
Substances Moderate 4/10
Themes Strong 6/10

What happens in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, moment by moment

  1. 0:15 🔥 Mature Themes 5/10
  2. 0:18 ♥ Sex & Nudity 3/10
  3. 0:30 💬 Language 4/10
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Sex and nudity in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

Brief, non-graphic sexual content. A romantic relationship depicted with intimacy. A memory of a couple in bed.

Violence and gore in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

None.

Language in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

Strong language, consistent with R rating. Not constant.

Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

A character takes pills as part of the procedure. Social drinking. A subplot involving a technician's drug use and the erased memories he reads.

Mature themes in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

Memory, identity, and whether the pain of love is worth its cost. The film asks: if you could erase someone from your life, would you? And then gradually answers: no. A deeply romantic film about the irreplaceable nature of specific, flawed love.

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Is Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind appropriate for kids?

Bontent's parent guide suggests Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is best for ages 14+. It's rated R. A man undergoing a procedure to erase his ex-girlfriend from his memory realises, inside the process, that he wants to keep her. A wildly inventive, deeply romantic film about memory and love. The R rating is primarily…

What age rating does Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind have?

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is officially rated R. Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 14+.

What is Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind about?

A man undergoing a procedure to erase his ex-girlfriend from his memory realises, inside the process, that he wants to keep her. A wildly inventive, deeply romantic film about memory and love. The R rating is primarily for language and some sexuality. One of the most original films on this list and one of the most…

Is there sex or nudity in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind?

Brief, non-graphic sexual content. A romantic relationship depicted with intimacy. A memory of a couple in bed.

How violent is Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind?

None.

Is the language in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind appropriate for kids?

Strong language, consistent with R rating. Not constant.

Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking shown in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind?

A character takes pills as part of the procedure. Social drinking. A subplot involving a technician's drug use and the erased memories he reads.

What mature themes appear in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind?

Memory, identity, and whether the pain of love is worth its cost. The film asks: if you could erase someone from your life, would you? And then gradually answers: no. A deeply romantic film about the irreplaceable nature of specific, flawed love.

How long is Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind?

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind runs 108 minutes, directed by Michel Gondry, released in 2004.

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