With the Fire on High (2019) Parents Guide: Is the book OK for kids?

The protagonist, Emoni, is a seventeen-year-old mother to Emma, making her past sexual activity a central plot point throughout the novel. These events are discussed in terms of consequences and responsibilities rather than graphic descriptions, though she does mention the lack of protection during the encounter with Tyrone. There are several scenes of flirting and moderate kissing between Emoni and her love interest, Malachi. The text includes healthy discussions about birth control, the importance of consent…

Violence is very minimal and largely confined to verbal altercations or references to the past. Emoni mentions having a reputation for being able to fight to protect her daughter, referencing a past physical incident that solidified this image in her neighborhood. There are brief mentions of the general dangers in her Philadelphia community, such as the sound of sirens or the threat of street conflict. During a trip to Spain, a tense situation arises in a kitchen setting, but it remains a matter of professional…

The novel contains moderate use of profanity throughout to reflect a realistic urban high school environment. Readers will encounter several instances of the f-word, typically used for emphasis during moments of high stress or anger. Other terms used frequently include 'shit,' 'hell,' 'damn,' and 'ass,' as well as 'bitch' in a casual or derogatory context between peers. The language is not pervasive on every page but is consistent with the contemporary young adult genre. Emoni often monitors her language when…

Substance use is portrayed as a background element of adult life and is never glamorized or engaged in by the underage protagonist. Emoni's grandmother, Abuela, is seen occasionally enjoying a beer or a glass of wine at home after a long day. During the class culinary trip to Spain, Emoni observes local adults and mentors drinking wine during social dinners, which is presented as a cultural norm. There are no scenes involving illegal drug use, and Emoni herself remains sober throughout the book, as she is focused…

Central themes focus on the systemic stigma surrounding teen pregnancy and the specific struggles of a young Afro-Latinx woman navigating professional culinary spaces. The book explores the complexities of co-parenting with Emma’s father, Tyrone, who is frequently disinterested and unreliable. Emoni’s Afro-Puerto Rican heritage is a significant theme, particularly how she connects to her ancestors through the flavors and emotions of her cooking. The plot also deals with the grief of Emoni’s mother passing away…