
The It Girl (2022) Parents Guide: Is the book OK for kids?
Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language
April Clarke-Cliveden was the first person Hannah Jones met at Oxford. Vivacious, bright, occasionally vicious, and the ultimate It girl, she quickly pulled Hannah into her dazzling orbit. Together, they developed a group of devoted and inseparable friends—Will, Hugh, Ryan, and Emily—during their first term. By the end of the year, April was dead. Now, a decade later, Hannah and Will are expecting their first child, and the man convicted of killing April, former Oxford porter John Neville, has died in prison. Relieved to have… Sign up for the full guide
Adult • 2022 • 423 pages • High School
The It Girl is an adult psychological thriller that alternates between a character’s university years at Oxford and the present day as she investigates a friend's decade-old murder. The book is suitable for older teens (16+) due to its mature themes of murder, stalking, and the emotional trauma of a wrongful conviction. While it contains some profanity and social drinking, the focus remains on the suspenseful mystery and the… Sign up for the full guide
Is The It Girl appropriate for kids?
The It Girl is an adult psychological thriller that alternates between a character’s university years at Oxford and the present day as she investigates a friend's decade-old murder. The book is suitable for older teens (16+) due to its mature themes of murder, stalking, and the… Read more — free account
Content severity in The It Girl
What happens in The It Girl, moment by moment
- p. 22 ⚔ Violence & Gore 6/10
- p. 45 💬 Language 4/10
- p. 68 🍷 Substances 3/10
Sex and nudity in The It Girl
The book contains mild sexual content, including references to past flirts, casual dating in a university setting, and brief, non-graphic descriptions of physical intimacy. Character April is described as having a magnetic, flirtatious personality that leads to several romantic entanglements within her social circle at Pelham College. Hannah and Will are depicted in a committed marriage, with scenes suggesting a healthy sexual relationship without detailed anatomical descriptions. Most sexual tension is…
Read more — free accountViolence and gore in The It Girl
The central plot involves a murder. There are descriptions of finding a body, the physical struggle during the crime, and discussions about the strangulation and subsequent forensic evidence. The discovery of April’s body is a recurring traumatic image for Hannah, described with chilling clinical detail including the temperature of the skin and the marks of the attack. Later in the book, the threat of violence becomes physical as Hannah is stalked and eventually cornered by the true perpetrator. The climax…
Read more — free accountLanguage in The It Girl
Moderate profanity is used throughout, including occasional uses of the f-word, 'sh*t,' and 'b*stard,' primarily during moments of high stress or anger. As the tension ramps up in the present-day timeline, Hannah's frustration with the police and her former friends leads to more frequent outbursts of strong language. The college students in the 'Before' segments use contemporary British slang and derogatory terms for one another in a colloquial manner. While not present on every page, the swearing is realistic for…
Read more — free accountDrugs, alcohol, and smoking in The It Girl
Social drinking (wine, beer, spirits) is common among the university students and the adult characters in the present. There are some references to recreational drug use in the college environment, including mentions of pills and marijuana during parties. Characters often use alcohol as a social lubricant or a way to cope with the mounting stress of the investigation. In the 'Before' timeline, the drinking is sometimes depicted as excessive, leading to blackouts or poor judgment that fuels the mystery. In the…
Read more — free accountMature themes in The It Girl
Major themes include the fallibility of memory, the obsessive nature of female friendships, grief, the weight of guilt, and the pursuit of justice against the backdrop of a potential miscarriage of justice. Hannah grapples with the traumatic memory of finding her friend April's body and the possibility that her testimony put an innocent man, John Neville, behind bars. The narrative explores how the 'It Girl' persona can be both a shield and a target, examining the toxic dynamics within a tight-knit group of Oxford…
Read more — free accountFrequently Asked Questions
Is The It Girl appropriate for kids?
Bontent's parent guide suggests The It Girl is best for ages 16+. The It Girl is an adult psychological thriller that alternates between a character’s university years at Oxford and the present day as she investigates a friend's decade-old murder. The book is suitable for older teens…
What age rating does The It Girl have?
Books don't carry official age ratings. The It Girl is shelved by its publisher as Adult, but that's a marketing category, not a content rating — Bontent's own review of what's actually on the page puts it at ages 16+.
What reading level is The It Girl?
The It Girl is 423 pages and its reading level is High School. Bontent recommends it for ages 16+.
What is The It Girl about?
The It Girl is an adult psychological thriller that alternates between a character’s university years at Oxford and the present day as she investigates a friend's decade-old murder. The book is suitable for older teens (16+) due to its mature themes of murder, stalking, and the emotional trauma of a wrongful…
Is there sex or nudity in The It Girl?
The book contains mild sexual content, including references to past flirts, casual dating in a university setting, and brief, non-graphic descriptions of physical intimacy. Character April is described as having a magnetic, flirtatious personality that leads…
How violent is The It Girl?
The central plot involves a murder. There are descriptions of finding a body, the physical struggle during the crime, and discussions about the strangulation and subsequent forensic evidence. The discovery of April’s body is a recurring traumatic image for…
Is the language in The It Girl appropriate for kids?
Moderate profanity is used throughout, including occasional uses of the f-word, 'sh*t,' and 'b*stard,' primarily during moments of high stress or anger. As the tension ramps up in the present-day timeline, Hannah's frustration with the police and her former…
Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking depicted in The It Girl?
Social drinking (wine, beer, spirits) is common among the university students and the adult characters in the present. There are some references to recreational drug use in the college environment, including mentions of pills and marijuana during parties…
What mature themes appear in The It Girl?
Major themes include the fallibility of memory, the obsessive nature of female friendships, grief, the weight of guilt, and the pursuit of justice against the backdrop of a potential miscarriage of justice. Hannah grapples with the traumatic memory of finding…
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