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The Awakening (2010) Parents Guide: Is the book OK for kids?

Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language

New York Times bestselling series This special paperback TV tie-in edition of the first book in L.J. Smith’s New York Times bestselling The Vampire Diaries series features cover artwork from the hit CW TV show based on the book, starring Nina Dobrev, Paul Wesley, and Ian Somerhalder. Elena Gilbert is a high school golden girl, used to getting what she wants. And who she wants. But when the boy she’s set her sights on—the handsome and haunted Stefan—isn’t interested, she’s confused. She could never know the real reason Stefan is… Sign up for the full guide

YA • 2010 • 264 pages • Grade 7-9

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This foundational Young Adult paranormal romance earns its rating due to gothic horror elements, blood-drinking, and intense romantic tension. While less graphic than the television adaptation, the book contains scenes of physical assault, a haunting encounter with a serial killer archetype, and supernatural peril. Most suitable for readers 12+ who enjoy suspenseful romance and classic vampire lore.

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Is The Awakening appropriate for kids?

This foundational Young Adult paranormal romance earns its rating due to gothic horror elements, blood-drinking, and intense romantic tension. While less graphic than the television adaptation, the book contains scenes of physical assault, a haunting encounter with a serial… Read more — free account

Content severity in The Awakening

Sex Moderate 4/10
Violence Strong 6/10
Language Mild 2/10
Substances Moderate 3/10
Themes Moderate 3/10

What happens in The Awakening, moment by moment

  1. p. 5 🔥 Mature Themes 2/10
  2. p. 12 💬 Language 1/10
  3. p. 22 ⚔ Violence & Gore 5/10
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Sex and nudity in The Awakening

The romance in The Awakening is driven by intense gothic longing and the physical magnetism between Elena and the Salvatore brothers. Physical intimacy is limited to passionate kissing, holding, and caressing, such as when Elena and Stefan find privacy at the school dance. However, the predatory nature of Damon Salvatore introduces a darker element, as he uses mind control to try and entice Elena into a trance-like submission. There are no descriptions of sexual intercourse or nudity, but the prose frequently…

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Violence and gore in The Awakening

The novel contains several scenes of supernatural violence and gore, beginning with a homeless man being attacked in the Vickery Creek cemetery. Mr. Tanner, a teacher, is later murdered in a brutal fashion that leaves the community in shock, with descriptions of his pale, blood-drained body. Stefan Salvatore experiences flashbacks to the 15th century, detailing how he and Damon turned into vampires through a violent, bloody conflict involving Katherine. Characters are frequently thrown against walls, strangled, or…

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Language in The Awakening

Language throughout the book is consistent with 1990s Young Adult literature and is relatively mild in frequency. Words like 'hell,' 'damn,' 'bastard,' and 'Lord' (used as an exclamation) appear during moments of high stress or teen social drama. There are no uses of severe profanity or racial slurs within the text. The dialogue focuses more on melodramatic emotional expression rather than crude vocabulary. Most linguistic intensity occurs during the verbal confrontations between Elena’s social circle and her…

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Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in The Awakening

Substance use is portrayed as a background element of high school social life, specifically during a party where alcohol is present but not explicitly glamorized. Characters like Tyler Smallwood are associated with aggressive behavior that is implied to be fueled by drinking. The most significant focus on 'consumption' is the vampires' biological need for blood, which is portrayed with a sense of craving and potential loss of control. Stefan’s struggle to survive on animal blood rather than human blood serves as a…

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Mature themes in The Awakening

The narrative explores the heavy burden of grief and abandonment as Elena Gilbert copes with the recent death of her parents in a car accident. Themes of social hierarchy and the emptiness of popularity are central to Elena’s character arc as she questions her role as the 'queen' of Robert E. Lee High School. The struggle between predestination and free will is highlighted by Stefan’s refusal to be a monster despite his nature. Additionally, the book examines the ethics of keeping dangerous secrets and the ways in…

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is The Awakening appropriate for kids?

Bontent's parent guide suggests The Awakening is best for ages 12+. This foundational Young Adult paranormal romance earns its rating due to gothic horror elements, blood-drinking, and intense romantic tension. While less graphic than the television adaptation, the book contains scenes…

What age rating does The Awakening have?

Books don't carry official age ratings. The Awakening is shelved by its publisher as YA, but that's a marketing category, not a content rating — Bontent's own review of what's actually on the page puts it at ages 12+.

What reading level is The Awakening?

The Awakening is 264 pages and its reading level is Grade 7-9. Bontent recommends it for ages 12+.

What is The Awakening about?

This foundational Young Adult paranormal romance earns its rating due to gothic horror elements, blood-drinking, and intense romantic tension. While less graphic than the television adaptation, the book contains scenes of physical assault, a haunting encounter with a serial killer archetype, and supernatural peril…

Is there sex or nudity in The Awakening?

The romance in The Awakening is driven by intense gothic longing and the physical magnetism between Elena and the Salvatore brothers. Physical intimacy is limited to passionate kissing, holding, and caressing, such as when Elena and Stefan find privacy at the…

How violent is The Awakening?

The novel contains several scenes of supernatural violence and gore, beginning with a homeless man being attacked in the Vickery Creek cemetery. Mr. Tanner, a teacher, is later murdered in a brutal fashion that leaves the community in shock, with descriptions…

Is the language in The Awakening appropriate for kids?

Language throughout the book is consistent with 1990s Young Adult literature and is relatively mild in frequency. Words like 'hell,' 'damn,' 'bastard,' and 'Lord' (used as an exclamation) appear during moments of high stress or teen social drama. There are no…

Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking depicted in The Awakening?

Substance use is portrayed as a background element of high school social life, specifically during a party where alcohol is present but not explicitly glamorized. Characters like Tyler Smallwood are associated with aggressive behavior that is implied to be…

What mature themes appear in The Awakening?

The narrative explores the heavy burden of grief and abandonment as Elena Gilbert copes with the recent death of her parents in a car accident. Themes of social hierarchy and the emptiness of popularity are central to Elena’s character arc as she questions…

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