
First Ladies (2023) Parents Guide: Is the book OK for kids?
Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language
The daughter of formerly enslaved parents, Mary McLeod Bethune refuses to back down as white supremacists attempt to thwart her work. She marches on as an activist and an educator, and as her reputation grows she becomes a celebrity, revered by titans of business and recognized by U.S. Presidents. Eleanor Roosevelt herself is awestruck and eager to make her acquaintance. Initially drawn together because of their shared belief in women’s rights and the power of education, Mary and Eleanor become fast friends confiding their secrets… Sign up for the full guide
Adult • 2023 • 600 pages • Grade 9-12
First Ladies is a historical fiction novel that explores the profound and politically significant friendship between Mary McLeod Bethune and Eleanor Roosevelt. The book earns its recommendation for mature readers due to its unflinching depiction of Jim Crow-era racism, including threats of lynching and systemic injustice, as well as the emotional weight of FDR's infidelity. It is an ideal read for older teens and adults interested in… Sign up for the full guide
Is First Ladies appropriate for kids?
First Ladies is a historical fiction novel that explores the profound and politically significant friendship between Mary McLeod Bethune and Eleanor Roosevelt. The book earns its recommendation for mature readers due to its unflinching depiction of Jim Crow-era racism, including… Read more — free account
Content severity in First Ladies
What happens in First Ladies, moment by moment
- p. 12 🔥 Mature Themes 5/10
- p. 28 💬 Language 1/10
- p. 44 ⚔ Violence & Gore 6/10
Sex and nudity in First Ladies
The book focuses on the emotional complexities of marriage and friendship rather than graphic content. Eleanor Roosevelt's discovery of Franklin's affair with Lucy Mercer serves as a recurring source of internal conflict and martial distance, though the betrayal is explored through letters and conversations rather than physical scenes. The text alludes to the rumors surrounding Eleanor’s intimate relationship with journalist Lorena Hickok, emphasizing their profound emotional connection and shared life. There is a…
Read more — free accountViolence and gore in First Ladies
The violence in the novel is largely systemic and psychological, reflecting the brutal reality of Jim Crow America. A significant and harrowing scene features Mary McLeod Bethune standing her ground against a Ku Klux Klan march at her school, which highlights the constant threat of lethal force. References to lynchings and physical assaults against the Black community serve as the high-stakes backdrop for the political maneuvering. The narrative also touches on the global violence of World War II and the specific…
Read more — free accountLanguage in First Ladies
The language is largely formal and reflective of the early to mid-20th-century setting, with low overall frequency of profanity. Occasional use of 'hell' or 'damn' occurs during moments of high political or personal frustration. Period-accurate terminology such as 'colored' and 'Negro' is used throughout to reflect the historical context of segregation and civil rights discourse. While these terms are not used as slurs in a derogatory sense by the protagonists, they reflect the racial hierarchy of the time. The…
Read more — free accountDrugs, alcohol, and smoking in First Ladies
Substance use is depicted as a standard component of 1930s and 40s social and political life. Characters are frequently seen consuming wine, sherry, and cocktails during White House functions, formal dinners, and private meetings. Franklin D. Roosevelt is often described with his characteristic cigarette holder, and smoking is common among many secondary characters in social settings. The consumption of alcohol is never portrayed as an addiction or a source of reckless behavior, but rather as a social lubricant…
Read more — free accountMature themes in First Ladies
The novel explores heavy and sophisticated themes centered on the intersection of race, gender, and power. The central focus is the profound friendship between Mary McLeod Bethune and Eleanor Roosevelt as they navigate the fight for civil rights and women's equality. Themes of political betrayal and personal sacrifice are prominent, particularly as the women balance their public duties with private grief. The text unflinchingly examines the injustice of segregation, the failure of the anti-lynching bill, and the…
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Is First Ladies appropriate for kids?
Bontent's parent guide suggests First Ladies is best for ages 14+. First Ladies is a historical fiction novel that explores the profound and politically significant friendship between Mary McLeod Bethune and Eleanor Roosevelt. The book earns its recommendation for mature readers due to…
What age rating does First Ladies have?
Books don't carry official age ratings. First Ladies is shelved by its publisher as Adult, but that's a marketing category, not a content rating — Bontent's own review of what's actually on the page puts it at ages 14+.
What reading level is First Ladies?
First Ladies is 600 pages and its reading level is Grade 9-12. Bontent recommends it for ages 14+.
What is First Ladies about?
First Ladies is a historical fiction novel that explores the profound and politically significant friendship between Mary McLeod Bethune and Eleanor Roosevelt. The book earns its recommendation for mature readers due to its unflinching depiction of Jim Crow-era racism, including threats of lynching and systemic…
Is there sex or nudity in First Ladies?
The book focuses on the emotional complexities of marriage and friendship rather than graphic content. Eleanor Roosevelt's discovery of Franklin's affair with Lucy Mercer serves as a recurring source of internal conflict and martial distance, though the…
How violent is First Ladies?
The violence in the novel is largely systemic and psychological, reflecting the brutal reality of Jim Crow America. A significant and harrowing scene features Mary McLeod Bethune standing her ground against a Ku Klux Klan march at her school, which highlights…
Is the language in First Ladies appropriate for kids?
The language is largely formal and reflective of the early to mid-20th-century setting, with low overall frequency of profanity. Occasional use of 'hell' or 'damn' occurs during moments of high political or personal frustration. Period-accurate terminology…
Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking depicted in First Ladies?
Substance use is depicted as a standard component of 1930s and 40s social and political life. Characters are frequently seen consuming wine, sherry, and cocktails during White House functions, formal dinners, and private meetings. Franklin D. Roosevelt is…
What mature themes appear in First Ladies?
The novel explores heavy and sophisticated themes centered on the intersection of race, gender, and power. The central focus is the profound friendship between Mary McLeod Bethune and Eleanor Roosevelt as they navigate the fight for civil rights and women's…
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