
Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close (2011) Parents Guide: Is the movie OK for kids?
Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language
A year after his father's death, Oskar, a troubled young boy, discovers a mysterious key he believes was left for him by his father and embarks on a scavenger hunt to find the matching lock.
Rated PG-13 • 2011 • 2h 9m
Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close follows a grieving nine-year-old boy, Oskar Schell, as he navigates the aftermath of his father's death in the 9/11 attacks. The film is rated PG-13 primarily for its intense emotional weight, exploration of trauma, and disturbing depictions of the 9/11 tragedy. Parents should be prepared for frequent references to the attacks, the use of a distressing recording of a man's final moments, and the… Sign up for the full guide
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Is Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close appropriate for kids?
Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close follows a grieving nine-year-old boy, Oskar Schell, as he navigates the aftermath of his father's death in the 9/11 attacks. The film is rated PG-13 primarily for its intense emotional weight, exploration of trauma, and disturbing depictions of… Read more — free account
Content severity in Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close
What happens in Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close, moment by moment
- 0:15 ⚔ Violence & Gore 5/10
- 0:22 🔥 Mature Themes 6/10
- 0:35 ⚔ Violence & Gore 5/10
Sex and nudity in Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close
There is no sexual content or nudity in this film.
Violence and gore in Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close
The violence is moderate and largely psychological or self-inflicted. Oskar, struggling with grief, pinches himself until he bleeds. There are also vivid, harrowing visual depictions of the 9/11 attacks, including silhouettes of people falling from the towers.
Language in Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close
Language is mild, with occasional usage of terms like 'dickhead', 'arsehole', 'spaz', and 'retard'. Some characters also engage in rapid-fire wordplay that sounds like profanity.
Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close
Substance use is light. Adult characters are occasionally seen drinking wine, and there is a brief scene where a man attempts to hide a bottle of whiskey.
Mature themes in Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close
The film deals with heavy, mature themes including traumatic loss, severe grief, anxiety, and the 9/11 terrorist attacks. Oskar's behavior includes signs of emotional distress and potential mental health struggles, which are presented with raw intensity.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close appropriate for kids?
Bontent's parent guide suggests Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close is best for ages 13+. It's rated PG-13. Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close follows a grieving nine-year-old boy, Oskar Schell, as he navigates the aftermath of his father's death in the 9/11 attacks. The film is rated PG-13 primarily for its intense emotional…
What age rating does Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close have?
Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close is officially rated PG-13. Bontent's independent parent guide recommends it for ages 13+.
What is Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close about?
Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close follows a grieving nine-year-old boy, Oskar Schell, as he navigates the aftermath of his father's death in the 9/11 attacks. The film is rated PG-13 primarily for its intense emotional weight, exploration of trauma, and disturbing depictions of the 9/11 tragedy. Parents should be…
Is there sex or nudity in Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close?
There is no sexual content or nudity in this film.
How violent is Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close?
The violence is moderate and largely psychological or self-inflicted. Oskar, struggling with grief, pinches himself until he bleeds. There are also vivid, harrowing visual depictions of the 9/11 attacks, including silhouettes of people falling from the towers.
Is the language in Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close appropriate for kids?
Language is mild, with occasional usage of terms like 'dickhead', 'arsehole', 'spaz', and 'retard'. Some characters also engage in rapid-fire wordplay that sounds like profanity.
Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking shown in Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close?
Substance use is light. Adult characters are occasionally seen drinking wine, and there is a brief scene where a man attempts to hide a bottle of whiskey.
What mature themes appear in Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close?
The film deals with heavy, mature themes including traumatic loss, severe grief, anxiety, and the 9/11 terrorist attacks. Oskar's behavior includes signs of emotional distress and potential mental health struggles, which are presented with raw intensity.
How long is Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close?
Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close runs 129 minutes, directed by Stephen Daldry, released in 2011.
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