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This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor (2022) Parents Guide: Is the book OK for kids?

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Now an AMC+ series starring Ben Whishaw The acclaimed multimillion-copy bestseller,  This Is Going to Hurt  is Adam Kay’s equally "blisteringly funny" (Boston Globe) and “heartbreaking” (New Yorker) physician memoir, chronicling the secret diaries of his years as a young doctor. Welcome to 97-hour weeks. Welcome to life and death decisions. Welcome to a constant tsunami of bodily fluids. Welcome to earning less than the hospital parking meter. Wave goodbye to your friends and relationships. Welcome to the life of a… Sign up for the full guide

Adult • 2022 • 304 pages • Adult

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This is Going to Hurt is a raw and darkly comedic memoir that earns its adult rating through graphic descriptions of medical procedures (largely obstetric and gynecological), frequent strong language, and a devastating look at physician burnout. Parents should be aware of the 'tsunami of bodily fluids,' specific accounts of degloving injuries and traumatic births, and the heartbreaking conclusion involving a fetal death. It is an… Sign up for the full guide

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Is This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor appropriate for kids?

This is Going to Hurt is a raw and darkly comedic memoir that earns its adult rating through graphic descriptions of medical procedures (largely obstetric and gynecological), frequent strong language, and a devastating look at physician burnout. Parents should be aware of the… Read more — free account

Content severity in This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor

Sex Strong 5/10
Violence Intense 9/10
Language Moderate 4/10
Substances Moderate 3/10
Themes Intense 8/10

What happens in This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor, moment by moment

  1. p. 12 💬 Language 4/10
  2. p. 22 🔥 Mature Themes 3/10
  3. p. 35 ⚔ Violence & Gore 6/10
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Sex and nudity in This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor

The book contains frank medical discussions of sexual health, including removing foreign objects from various orifices and treating STIs. There are occasional references to the author's personal dating life and anecdotes involving patient nudity or unusual sexual mishaps, handled with clinical but irreverent humor. While not erotic, the descriptions of genital injuries and gynecological procedures are highly explicit. Adam Kay describes various 'lost' items including lightbulbs and household objects in a…

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Violence and gore in This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor

Violence is primarily medical and accidental rather than intentional. Descriptions of surgeries, traumatic births, and severe injuries (like a finger being degloved by a wedding ring) are graphic and visceral. The book concludes with a deeply distressing medical tragedy involving a placental abruption and a 'sea of blood' in the operating theater. Readers are exposed to the physical reality of C-sections, including the sounds and sensations of cutting through flesh. There are also mentions of the physical toll on…

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Language in This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor

Strong language is used frequently throughout the diaries, including numerous uses of 'f--k' and 'sh-t.' The tone is conversational and includes British slang and cynical workplace profanity common in high-stress environments. Kay uses colorful metaphors to describe difficult patients and incompetent administrators, often utilizing expletives for comedic effect. Even minor entries feature casual swearing as a reflex to the absurdity of the NHS system. The profanity is consistent from the first chapter through to…

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Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor

Occasional mentions of social drinking and the use of alcohol to cope with the stress of the job. Drug use is mentioned primarily in a medical context, such as prescribing powerful analgesics or administering anesthesia, but also in the context of treating patients who have overdosed. Adam often mentions being too tired to even pour a glass of wine, yet alcohol remains a primary social lubricant for the hospital staff during their limited time off. There are references to patients being intoxicated and the…

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Mature themes in This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor

Major themes include the physical and mental toll of a medical career, the failure of institutional support systems, grief, sleep deprivation, and the sacrifice of personal relationships for professional duty. The narrative explores the 'god complex' vs. the reality of human error, and the emotional numbness required to survive the profession. The author's relationship with his partner, H, suffers significantly due to his absence and emotional withdrawal. Ultimately, the book serves as a critique of how the…

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Is This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor appropriate for kids?

Bontent's parent guide suggests This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor is best for ages 17+. This is Going to Hurt is a raw and darkly comedic memoir that earns its adult rating through graphic descriptions of medical procedures (largely obstetric and gynecological), frequent strong language, and a devastating…

What age rating does This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor have?

Books don't carry official age ratings. This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor is shelved by its publisher as Adult, but that's a marketing category, not a content rating — Bontent's own review of what's actually on the page puts it at ages 17+.

What reading level is This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor?

This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor is 304 pages and its reading level is Adult. Bontent recommends it for ages 17+.

What is This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor about?

This is Going to Hurt is a raw and darkly comedic memoir that earns its adult rating through graphic descriptions of medical procedures (largely obstetric and gynecological), frequent strong language, and a devastating look at physician burnout. Parents should be aware of the 'tsunami of bodily fluids,' specific…

Is there sex or nudity in This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor?

The book contains frank medical discussions of sexual health, including removing foreign objects from various orifices and treating STIs. There are occasional references to the author's personal dating life and anecdotes involving patient nudity or unusual…

How violent is This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor?

Violence is primarily medical and accidental rather than intentional. Descriptions of surgeries, traumatic births, and severe injuries (like a finger being degloved by a wedding ring) are graphic and visceral. The book concludes with a deeply distressing…

Is the language in This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor appropriate for kids?

Strong language is used frequently throughout the diaries, including numerous uses of 'f--k' and 'sh-t.' The tone is conversational and includes British slang and cynical workplace profanity common in high-stress environments. Kay uses colorful metaphors to…

Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking depicted in This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor?

Occasional mentions of social drinking and the use of alcohol to cope with the stress of the job. Drug use is mentioned primarily in a medical context, such as prescribing powerful analgesics or administering anesthesia, but also in the context of treating…

What mature themes appear in This is Going to Hurt: Secret Diaries of a Junior Doctor?

Major themes include the physical and mental toll of a medical career, the failure of institutional support systems, grief, sleep deprivation, and the sacrifice of personal relationships for professional duty. The narrative explores the 'god complex' vs. the…

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