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The View Was Exhausting (2021) Parents Guide: Is the book OK for kids?

Age Rating, Sex, Violence & Language

In this escapist, swoon-worthy novel, a famous actress becomes embroiled in a fake tabloid romance, confronts the challenges of being a woman of color in Hollywood, and the notion that she might actually be in love. “A pure delight! Effortlessly cool, razor sharp, and crazy fun—I couldn’t put it down.” —Taylor Jenkins Reid, New York Times bestselling author of Daisy Jones & the Six "The complex, Hollywood love story we've all been waiting for—I couldn't get enough." —Emily Henry, #1 New York Times bestselling author of People We… Sign up for the full guide

Adult • 2021 • 336 pages • Adult

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The View Was Exhausting is an adult contemporary romance featuring a 'fake dating' trope that explores the pressures of celebrity, racial dynamics in Hollywood, and personal trauma. The book is recommended for audiences aged 17+ due to several explicit sexual scenes, frequent strong profanity, and heavy themes including parental neglect and the fetishization of women of color. While the primary focus is a glamorous international… Sign up for the full guide

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Is The View Was Exhausting appropriate for kids?

The View Was Exhausting is an adult contemporary romance featuring a 'fake dating' trope that explores the pressures of celebrity, racial dynamics in Hollywood, and personal trauma. The book is recommended for audiences aged 17+ due to several explicit sexual scenes, frequent… Read more — free account

Content severity in The View Was Exhausting

Sex Intense 8/10
Violence Moderate 3/10
Language Strong 5/10
Substances Moderate 3/10
Themes Strong 6/10

What happens in The View Was Exhausting, moment by moment

  1. p. 12 💬 Language 4/10
  2. p. 28 🔥 Mature Themes 2/10
  3. p. 45 🍷 Substances 3/10
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Sex and nudity in The View Was Exhausting

The book contains several scenes of descriptive, on-page sexual content between the leads, Win and Leo. While not as graphic as some 'dark' romances, it includes explicit descriptions of sensations, anatomy, and various acts such as oral sex. These scenes, particularly during their time on the yacht and in Morocco, emphasize both the physical mechanics and the emotional weight of their connection. There are also multiple instances of heavy making out and sexual tension throughout the 'fake dating' scenarios that…

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Violence and gore in The View Was Exhausting

Physical violence is minimal, though there is a scene involving a physical altercation or shove during a high-stress confrontation between Leo and his father. The 'violence' is primarily emotional and psychological, involving the toxic behavior of Leo's father, who uses his wealth and influence to manipulate his son. Aggressive intrusion of paparazzi creates a constant sense of threat and violation of privacy for Win. During a scene in Morocco, the intensity of a crowd causes a moment of physical distress and…

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Language in The View Was Exhausting

Strong language is used frequently throughout the narrative. Readers will encounter 'f*ck' and its variations roughly 50-70 times, along with 'sh*t,' 'b*tch,' and 'ass.' The dialogue reflects a modern, adult Hollywood setting where profanity is used both for emphasis in arguments and casually among friends. Win's internal monologues and her interactions with her publicist often feature sharp, realistic adult language. The density of expletives increases significantly during the emotionally charged confrontations…

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Drugs, alcohol, and smoking in The View Was Exhausting

Social drinking is constant, occurring at parties, on yachts, and during dinners in Saint-Tropez and Morocco. The characters are frequently seen with glasses of champagne, wine, or cocktails as part of their elite lifestyle. There are mentions of characters being 'drunk' or 'hungover' following high-profile industry events. Some references are made to past drug use and the general availability of substances within the celebrity lifestyle, though no illicit drug use is depicted in the current timeline. Alcohol is…

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Mature themes in The View Was Exhausting

Major themes include the performative nature of celebrity life and the toll of maintaining a public facade. The novel explores the unique struggles of a woman of color, Win, navigating a white-dominated industry and the fetishization she experiences from the media. A significant subplot involves Leo's past trauma, his struggle with his family's legacy, and his father's emotional abuse. These themes are handled with maturity, focusing on the psychological impact of fame and the search for authentic connection. The…

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Is The View Was Exhausting appropriate for kids?

Bontent's parent guide suggests The View Was Exhausting is best for ages 17+. The View Was Exhausting is an adult contemporary romance featuring a 'fake dating' trope that explores the pressures of celebrity, racial dynamics in Hollywood, and personal trauma. The book is recommended for audiences…

What age rating does The View Was Exhausting have?

Books don't carry official age ratings. The View Was Exhausting is shelved by its publisher as Adult, but that's a marketing category, not a content rating — Bontent's own review of what's actually on the page puts it at ages 17+.

What reading level is The View Was Exhausting?

The View Was Exhausting is 336 pages and its reading level is Adult. Bontent recommends it for ages 17+.

What is The View Was Exhausting about?

The View Was Exhausting is an adult contemporary romance featuring a 'fake dating' trope that explores the pressures of celebrity, racial dynamics in Hollywood, and personal trauma. The book is recommended for audiences aged 17+ due to several explicit sexual scenes, frequent strong profanity, and heavy themes…

Is there sex or nudity in The View Was Exhausting?

The book contains several scenes of descriptive, on-page sexual content between the leads, Win and Leo. While not as graphic as some 'dark' romances, it includes explicit descriptions of sensations, anatomy, and various acts such as oral sex. These scenes…

How violent is The View Was Exhausting?

Physical violence is minimal, though there is a scene involving a physical altercation or shove during a high-stress confrontation between Leo and his father. The 'violence' is primarily emotional and psychological, involving the toxic behavior of Leo's…

Is the language in The View Was Exhausting appropriate for kids?

Strong language is used frequently throughout the narrative. Readers will encounter 'f*ck' and its variations roughly 50-70 times, along with 'sh*t,' 'b*tch,' and 'ass.' The dialogue reflects a modern, adult Hollywood setting where profanity is used both for…

Are drugs, alcohol, or smoking depicted in The View Was Exhausting?

Social drinking is constant, occurring at parties, on yachts, and during dinners in Saint-Tropez and Morocco. The characters are frequently seen with glasses of champagne, wine, or cocktails as part of their elite lifestyle. There are mentions of characters…

What mature themes appear in The View Was Exhausting?

Major themes include the performative nature of celebrity life and the toll of maintaining a public facade. The novel explores the unique struggles of a woman of color, Win, navigating a white-dominated industry and the fetishization she experiences from the…

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